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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

acidboy

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Originally Posted by Eason
That's how it's lookin' friend, I'll visit there sometime.
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Appreciate the work you did for me though!


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just when I was all set to test how "bicurious" you really are
 

Eason

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Originally Posted by acidboy
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just when I was all set to test how "bicurious" you really are


only if you look like a kathoey~
 

shellshock

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my ex just told me he got me a birthday & xmas gift... now i have to get him something (?)
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Originally Posted by shellshock
my ex just told me he got me a birthday & xmas gift... now i have to get him something (?)
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Where have you been!?! I think tomgirl is trying to steal your role of forum mascot
 

shellshock

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Originally Posted by Matt
id suggest you give him a polite thank you. Unless you wanna go back....
yeah i definitely wasn't planning on exchanging gifts.

Originally Posted by Stazy
Where have you been!?! I think tomgirl is trying to steal your role of forum mascot

I'm here! just hanging out... lurking in the shadows i guess? haha Have I been slacking on mascot duties? Where have YOU been?
 

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Originally Posted by shellshock
yeah i definitely wasn't planning on exchanging gifts.
Good. I don't understand why people drag these things on. Break up. Move on. Trying to stay friends after just isn't worth the effort in my opinion.
Originally Posted by shellshock
I'm here! just hanging out... lurking in the shadows i guess? haha Have I been slacking on mascot duties? Where have YOU been?
Hmmm I guess I just haven't seen your posts. I've been posting a lot since September! There is definitely a negative correlation between my relationship status and SF posting frequency.
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acidboy

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Originally Posted by shellshock
my ex just told me he got me a birthday & xmas gift... now i have to get him something (?)
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no you don't
 

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Originally Posted by shellshock
my ex just told me he got me a birthday & xmas gift... now i have to get him something (?)
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If he is getting you a birthday & xmas gift it is for one of rather few reasons:

1. He is just a really, really nice guy who genuinely wants to stay friends, and show that by wanting to give you a gift (highly unlikely)

2. He got something very personalized and unreturnable when you were already together, and it would be weird/a waste to give it to someone else/throw it out. (not very likely)

3. He wants to get back together (likely)

Decide which one you think it is, and act accordingly.
 

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Originally Posted by kungapa
If he is getting you a birthday & xmas gift it is for one of rather few reasons:

1. He is just a really, really nice guy who genuinely wants to stay friends, and show that by wanting to give you a gift (highly unlikely)

2. He got something very personalized and unreturnable when you were already together, and it would be weird/a waste to give it to someone else/throw it out. (not very likely)

3. He wants to get back together (likely)

Decide which one you think it is, and act accordingly.


4. He's horny and wants to bone
 

shellshock

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Originally Posted by acidboy
no you don't

you're right. i did send his family a christmas card though, haha. my mom made me!
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Originally Posted by kungapa
If he is getting you a birthday & xmas gift it is for one of rather few reasons:

1. He is just a really, really nice guy who genuinely wants to stay friends, and show that by wanting to give you a gift (highly unlikely)

2. He got something very personalized and unreturnable when you were already together, and it would be weird/a waste to give it to someone else/throw it out. (not very likely)

3. He wants to get back together (likely)

Decide which one you think it is, and act accordingly.


yeah he was pretty bummed and i think he still might be, he said he still wants to talk to me regularly. i didn't ask him to get me anything, and it was kind of unexpected when he brought it up and said the gift might get there after xmas. the whole staying friends thing is weird, because we were friends for several years before dating then were together for like a year and a half. i'm totally fine being friends again, and he's seemed like he is too but now i'm thinking maybe not.
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Originally Posted by gort
4. He's horny and wants to bone
dude is several hours away, not happening.
 

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