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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Matt, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    It had to be done.

    She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

    Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

    It's still sad though.
     
  2. hamish5178

    hamish5178 Senior member

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    I ended a 20 month relationship on Friday, I feel for you man.

    I'm going far away for college and that broke her heart, still trying to figure out what I can learn from the whole thing.
     
  3. mack11211

    mack11211 Senior member

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    It had to be done.

    She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

    Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

    It's still sad though.


    Too bad.

    Don't hit the Bong Milk too hard.
     
  4. Bradford

    Bradford Senior member

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    I feel for you Matt. Even when you know it is the right move, it's still tough to go through.

    Keep yourself busy and the hurt will eventually pass.
     
  5. philosophe

    philosophe Senior member

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    I'm sorry it had to go that way. Sometimes what's right really hurts.
     
  6. bluemagic

    bluemagic Senior member

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    Sorry.

    But now StyleForum will get all your love. [​IMG]
     
  7. thekunk07

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    sorry, but conversely, congratulations.most people don't know when to nip a relationship in the bud. you, apparently, do.
     
  8. randallr

    randallr Senior member

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    M@t you always have kunks shoulder to cry on if you need it.
     
  9. Berticus

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    most people don't know when to nip a relationship in the bud. you, apparently, do.
    Well not every relationship needs to have direction. Unless either of you are looking to settle down, the relationship wouldn't be eating into each other's future. The relationship could just be for fun. It'd be like a hobby. You don't want to turn it into a career, but you enjoy doing it anyway.
     
  10. JetBlast

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    Sorry to hear that m@t. You know SF is here if you need to talk about anything with the steez.
     
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    VKK3450 Senior member

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    While any breakup sucks, I think you are the kinda guy to have made a solid decision on this.

    I'll commisserate for a moment, but let me be the first to buy you a virtual beer (would be a real beer if at all possible in real life) or two and throw you back into the deep end of the pool.

    K
     
  13. Alek

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    That sucks man, but when one door closes another one opens [​IMG]
     
  14. mafoofan Jr.

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    If you have to do it, it's better that it's done prior to the new year's. Now you have a fresh start to court any ladies you like. [​IMG]

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    It had to be done.

    She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

    Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

    It's still sad though.
     
  15. whnay.

    whnay. Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.
     
  16. mafoofan Jr.

    mafoofan Jr. Senior member

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    Aren't most Vietnamese buddhists anyhow?

    I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.
     
  17. globetrotter

    globetrotter Senior member

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    sorry to hear that. It can't be easy. good luck.
     
  18. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    thanks guys. Was a strange morning...have been through my share of breakups, and mostly feel relief afterwards. This one I am feeling really nostalgic and everywhere-i-turn about it.

    Still, I know I did the right thing, just gonna take some time for the weirdness to subside.
     
  19. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Senior member

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    Still, I know I did the right thing, just gonna take some time for the weirdness to subside.
    If you find yourself in Chicago, I'll help to drown your sorrows in a bottle of scotch.
     
  20. whacked

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    I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.

    Small timer.

    While any breakup sucks, I think you are the kinda guy to have made a solid decision on this.

    Still, I know I did the right thing

    +1 and good to hear.
     

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