I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

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  1. SVS

    SVS Senior member

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    After a 4 year relationship I came home after 3 weeks away to find the house rented out to someone else, my dog gone, cars sold, relationship over, and a string of emails that recorded various "hookup" situations with strangers from the internet.

    Adults can be VERY VERY awful.


    WOW! That's messed up.

    That's sounds fucking awful, but there's no way you didn't do SOMETHING to piss her off. Cheating, excessive complacency to the point that it drives her that, or something... I refuse to believe that anyone would pull that shit unprovoked.

    People do all sorts of crazy things ...
     


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    After a 4 year relationship I came home after 3 weeks away to find the house rented out to someone else, my dog gone, cars sold, relationship over, and a string of emails that recorded various "hookup" situations with strangers from the internet.

    Adults can be VERY VERY awful.


    She was a very motivated seller, wow... all that in 3 weeks time.
     


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    She was a very motivated seller, wow... all that in 3 weeks time.

    reminds me of
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    After a 4 year relationship I came home after 3 weeks away to find the house rented out to someone else, my dog gone, cars sold, relationship over, and a string of emails that recorded various "hookup" situations with strangers from the internet.

    Adults can be VERY VERY awful.


    What did you, cheat on her with her mom or something?
     


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    After a 4 year relationship I came home after 3 weeks away to find the house rented out to someone else, my dog gone, cars sold, relationship over, and a string of emails that recorded various "hookup" situations with strangers from the internet.

    Adults can be VERY VERY awful.


    So, what became of the dog?
     


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    After a 4 year relationship I came home after 3 weeks away to find the house rented out to someone else, my dog gone, cars sold, relationship over, and a string of emails that recorded various "hookup" situations with strangers from the internet.

    Adults can be VERY VERY awful.


    whoa. did you marry the devil's daughter? what did you do? and am curious about the nature of these hookups.
     


  7. acidboy

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    fuji seems like kind of an asshole, but I guess he's 17.

    things are getting kind of rocky with my gf. She's 24 (I'm 25) and wants to know that we'll be settling down and will get married in two years or so. However, I still need to get my masters degree then find a place and job where I'm satisfied in settling down. This place is definitely not China, and she isn't prepared to live anywhere but China or Hong Kong, so that leaves only Hong Kong, which I'm not sure I'd like as a place to settle down. Last night she told me how she felt and had been feeling bad for a long time wondering about our future together, she suggested on trying being just friends. I told her we should talk about it in person today.

    The bottom line is:

    1. I love her
    2. We are a good match for each other and I doubt I'd find another girl of her caliber in a long time
    3. I can see myself staying with her and eventually getting married
    4. I am not in a situation with my life where I should plan a marriage, I am definitely not ready to settle down yet, and if I did I would regret it. I know this about myself. I need to at least 1- get my masters degree and 2- get a good job and settle myself before I can consider it.


    hope things work out with your girl, and I hope she understands how important the degree is for ya.

    so I suppose boracay's out next month?

    I bought my ex a gift for her birthday in march for her birthday in late december. i broke up with her in september. Its too late to return the gift and it's expensive. I am debating just giving it to her.

    They're fancy shoes.


    don't give the damn shoes. find a girl with the same shoe size.
     


  8. CouttsClient

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    That's sounds fucking awful, but there's no way you didn't do SOMETHING to piss her off. Cheating, excessive complacency to the point that it drives her that, or something... I refuse to believe that anyone would pull that shit unprovoked.
    It was awful and no, I didn't do SOMETHING. We were what appeared to be more than fine. I'm not a passive person and I made sure our relationship was as full and rich as possible and couples we knew tried to model their relationship in some ways after ours. 1.5yrs later and we still haven't had a conversation about the breakup...so why the relationship ended the way it did? I don't know because it didn't have to be that way. Believe it or not some people really DON'T care about you like they say they do. BTW. This ex is a HE and not a SHE.
    So, what became of the dog?
    Still living with the ex. Sucks. I loved that dog...at least he still has the name I gave him when he was born [​IMG]
    whoa. did you marry the devil's daughter? what did you do? and am curious about the nature of these hookups.
    The hookups? Well, they were all random online sex hookups. The language used in those emails was absolutely heartbreaking. I'm not the type to ever consider anyone my property but some things you think are sacred. Nope. I did print off those emails. They sit in a locked briefcase in my office. I don't know why I haven't thrown them out [​IMG]
     


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    oh I'm sorry... so its not the devil's daughter... it was beelzebub, jr. you were having a relationship with.
     


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    One night, about a week after it all fell apart I walked to the local hospital and checked myself into the psychiatric unit. It helped quite a bit because I was a mess.

    Such is life...
     


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    seriously, man, hope you'll find yourself a better partner! good luck!
     


  12. Rambo

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    Should I break up with her because of her period? She might cut her ovaries out.
    Joking. See below:
    Talked to her about it the next day, she regretted feeling emotional and said it made sense to her. We'll see when it come up again.
    When is her next period?
    ^^
    Christ, how old are all of you? Doesn't anyone dissolve relationships in person no mo'?
    Amen. Sack up and tell her to her face.
    After a 4 year relationship I came home after 3 weeks away to find the house rented out to someone else, my dog gone, cars sold, relationship over, and a string of emails that recorded various "hookup" situations with strangers from the internet. Adults can be VERY VERY awful.
    Holy shit! You should have gotten up at the Kennedy Center and sung Fuck You. oh. oh. oh.
    One night, about a week after it all fell apart I walked to the local hospital and checked myself into the psychiatric unit. It helped quite a bit because I was a mess. Such is life...
    Probably one of the best decisions you'll ever make. Sure beats staring into the bottom of a bottle.
    seriously, man, hope you'll find yourself a better partner! good luck!
    Plusfucking1
     


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    Sure beats staring into the bottom of a bottle.


    what's wrong with that? [​IMG]
     


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    what's wrong with that? [​IMG]
    Doesn't work out too well in the long term. Its great for finishing up a Tranny Tuesday though.
     


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    hope things work out with your girl, and I hope she understands how important the degree is for ya.

    so I suppose boracay's out next month?



    don't give the damn shoes. find a girl with the same shoe size.


    That's how it's lookin' friend, I'll visit there sometime. [​IMG] Appreciate the work you did for me though!
     


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