she put out on the first date

[grundletaint]

well, technically not the first date.... we've only hung out (via mutual friends) a few times. we were at a party the other night, there was a spark and when the party was over, the deed was done numerous times. we hadn't even really gone on a date, either.

not the first time it's happened to me, but i was kind of liking this girl and now i'm doubting her. hypocritical? sure. but still weird.

what say you on the topic?

 

[macuser3of5]

Do you want a FwB relationship or something more?

 

[Augusto86]

I predict that this thread will be tasteful and civilized with particularly erudite input from Jon, Conne and g33k.

As for advice for you, I got some - mix yourself a celebratory drink and pat yourself on the back.

 

[Brian278]

I'd say you have a casual sexual relationship on your hands. She probably has has doubts about dating you as well.

 

[Go Surface]

Good job for making her hate herself the next morning.

 

[Connemara]

Originally Posted by GoSurface

Good job for making her hate herself the next morning.
You tell 'em sister!

 

[grundletaint]

Originally Posted by Brian278

I'd say you have a casual sexual relationship on your hands. She probably has has doubts about dating you as well.

i hope you are right. it's happened the past few weekends, though. no phone calls or anything during the week.... problem is that the friends are starting to get all worked up about it. who knows....... the sex is good and my phone is quiet.

 

[Mr T]

Was it the same girl from AntiRabbit's thread?

 

[grundletaint]

Originally Posted by GoSurface

Good job for making her hate herself the next morning.



eh....not so fast. she was pretty enthusiastic in the morning. twice.

 

[Matt]

So basically the hunt is over, and you have no interest in her now cos she gave it up to easy?

 

[kwilkinson]

Originally Posted by m@T

So basically the hunt is over, and you have no interest in her now cos she gave it up to easy?

Yeah i feel you mat. I don't get when a lot of my friends do stuff like that.

 

[grundletaint]

Originally Posted by m@T

So basically the hunt is over, and you have no interest in her now cos she gave it up to easy?

not "no interest" per se....just kind of thrown off by it. BUT, i gave it up just as fast, right? maybe we're just 2 sluts in a pod

 

[bkk]

Originally Posted by grundletaint

eh....not so fast. she was pretty enthusiastic in the morning. twice.

I guess she chose to have her eggs scrambled.

This is the makings of something special. My wife and I started out the same way. 8 years later, we're still doing just great together (although all of our business trips have made our hearts a bit fonder).

 

[Baron]

In 2008, who gives a **** really? So she likes to ******** - that's a prerequisite for a good relationship in my book. If you're in your 20's, I'd say promiscuity is par for the course. Once girls get a little older and start trolling for husbands they get a little more cautious.

 

[ChicagoRon]

If you like her...who cares? You did the same thing. Don't have a double standard. I've had some wonderful long lasting relationships with girls that put out on the first date. They ended for totally unrelated reasons.