I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

[APK]

Originally Posted by panlinjing

The friends thing doesn't really work out. You might be able to be cordial or friendly with them, but it's an oddity when two people are able to actually be good friends following a long/intense romantic relationship. My logic has always been that if you were able to be such good friends, the relationship probably wouldn't have fallen apart.

Originally Posted by APK

The friends thing doesn't really work out. You might be able to be cordial or friendly with them, but it's an oddity when two people are able to actually be good friends following a long/intense romantic relationship. My logic has always been that if you were able to be such good friends, the relationship probably wouldn't have fallen apart.

 

[texas_jack]

Originally Posted by APK

busted

 

[TheD0n]

^^^ wtf?

 

[GQgeek]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

So you would have broken up with me too?

Eason is too pretty to have ever dated you.

(no ****)

 

[kwilkinson]

Originally Posted by GQgeek

Eason is too pretty to have ever dated you.

(no ****)

For an ugly fat dude, my past is full of very attractive women. But no attractive men.......yet.

 

[Rambo]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

For an ugly fat dude, my past is full of very attractive women. But no attractive men.......yet.
Just wait until Vox whisks you away to El Bulli. You're definitely putting out for that.

 

[kwilkinson]

Is Vox a hottie? I always found it strange that he posted his muscle pics with his face cut out.

 

[Rambo]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

Is Vox a hottie? I always found it strange that he posted his muscle pics with his face cut out.
Talk to Rach. I'm sure he's got the pic of Vox in his racing getup saved next to his Christian Ronaldo pics.

 

[ad_infinitum]

Hate to bump this one. It would have have been a year in a week. Any unconventional wisdom?

 

[spb_lady]

Originally Posted by ad_infinitum

Hate to bump this one. It would have have been a year in a week. Any unconventional wisdom?

what about "everything will be gone. this will be gone also" by king Solomon?

 

[ad_infinitum]

' Everything will pass. But, where is the comfort in that. Love, Happiness and Life will pass. Is hope in the fact that everything will pass?' - Mesa Selimovic Meh. Sorry, not in the mood.

 

[Nil]

Masturbate until your ******** are so sore you can't even bear to think about a woman.

Other than that, I got nothing besides the typical advice of moving on.

 

[APK]

I know nothing of your circumstances, but regardless of which party wanted out of the relationship, getting nostalgic after the fact is most likely trouble. I've developed into a sentimental guy, which is absolute poison to getting past a serious relationship.

You think you're making progress and then some silly thought hits you like, "Oh, a year ago we were doing this or that. And now **** sucks!" It's easy to do and will likely do nothing but marsupial your progress in moving on. I've been out of my last relationship for 13 months. I still have days where it hits me hard that it's over. It's tough, especially when I can't come up with anything I genuinely disliked about her, even when viewing the relationship from a postmortem viewpoint.

But I know ultimately it does nothing positive for me to stay hung up on any of it. Remember the good times and be thankful for them for what they were. Nothing more.

 

[ad_infinitum]

/-

 

[TheD0n]

Originally Posted by ad_infinitum

I felt like that at times, would bring it up than we would fight. Than I would rethink it... than I though it might be me who is demanding, than it was fine and I just enjoed being with her... I don't know, see above^ for stupid

I know this is a serious topic and all, but you really need to figure out the difference between then/than. This is incomprehensible the way you wrote it.