I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

[Joffrey]

Originally Posted by Big Pun

Broke up with a girl, she says shes not good enough for me. Told me just now she loves me and would do anything for me. I have no idea what to say.

She either wants a ring or she's lying. Be glad she peaced out.

 

[Frostedbutts]

Originally Posted by Big Pun

Broke up with a girl, she says shes not good enough for me. Told me just now she loves me and would do anything for me. I have no idea what to say.

Tell her you don't feel the same way and that it would be best for her to move on, since I'm assuming that's the case. Otherwise tell her how you feel. Masturbate beforehand so you're honest.

 

[embowafa]

Originally Posted by Frostedbutts

Masturbate beforehand so you're honest.

 

[impolyt_one]

Originally Posted by Eason

Aw damn dude, sorry to hear it. (Though, I think all of SF saw this coming)

Kinda. But there is a reconciliation clause we can both exercise if need be. I'm kinda waiting for the Korean girl to come back so I can pick her head a bit, maybe wrap her thighs around my face, and then I will mull on it.

Originally Posted by Jodum5

Post on ebay, purseforum or buy & sell here. You'll find a buyer.

I will give it a shot. I have a lot of personal wardrobe stuff I need to sell anyway actually. I don't know if I want to go on purseforum

 

[zissou]

Sorry to hear that, impolyt. It sounded like it was pretty hostile, so maybe it was best? I'm really enjoying being single, although I can't say I'm not on the lookout.

I ran into my ex up along with a bunch of other friends at the ski mountain on Sunday, and we chatted a bit. It was surprisingly ok, and after a few minutes I lost interest because she was trying to be all chummy. It's nice to realize that I am fine being slightly friendly, but don't actually care if we are friends.

 

[impolyt_one]

I don't seem to be able to have calm relationships, with apathetic breakups. Well, I did it once actually, and the girl actually lives 2 floors below me in the same apartment building still. I've never even see her face to face in the past 2 years either. That is kind of interesting I guess.

But anyway, yeah man, I can't do boring girls, or I get bored. I like them bad from the start. I can handle a bit of crazy but after 2 years, we were getting real crazy, like unbelievably crazy. Glad that is over. I am still having dreams lately about fighting with her, because I guess we fought so often that I had a defense mechanism growing in my head for dealing with it.

 

[impolyt_one]

Is it enough for a girl to be hott (like dudes are gonna hate me for how hot this girl is), but completely not your style and boring? Can I live that way?

 

[randallr]

Originally Posted by impolyt_one

Is it enough for a girl to be hott (like dudes are gonna hate me for how hot this girl is), but completely not your style and boring? Can I live that way?

I kinda have that. It's pretty legit. I hate to fight, though.

 

[Alter]

Originally Posted by impolyt_one

Is it enough for a girl to be hott (like dudes are gonna hate me for how hot this girl is), but completely not your style and boring? Can I live that way?
I married a girl that had hotness over compatibility more than 10 years ago. It can work.

 

[impolyt_one]

How do you handle the differences in taste? I am trying to guage how much I will have to give in/change.

 

[kwilkinson]

lol you just called your wife boring.

 

[APK]

Drew sounds like he and his ex could have been the Korean Sammi and Ronnie. Or, to avoid more modern pop culture comparisons, Sid and Nancy.

 

[randallr]

Originally Posted by impolyt_one

How do you handle the differences in taste? I am trying to guage how much I will have to give in/change.

I know this was probably a question for Alter, but I'll give my answer anyway. I've always liked being the adventurous one that can open her eyes up to new things. I wouldn't say that she is boring, but she is far less "battle-hardened" than myself. I've been around the block a few times and I am her first. Sometimes you just want someone you can count on I guess.

 

[Eason]

NH, but I find people who seek inexperienced partners are often both immature and un-confident. It's always been weird for me.

 

[Alter]

And in the 15 years I have known her...I have learned a ton of things and I have probably ended up changing more than her. Now, I am the boring one. But I have a beautiful family, a nice life and a still-hot wife. I am lucky to have found her. And I am still way more alpha than Kyle will ever be.