ex lied about being pregnant! thanks for all your help.

[forex]

Originally Posted by ramuman

What the hell is up with this add/delete on FB crap? Maybe at 27 I'm too old to get this, but is this how relationships are forged and dismantled these days?

I am going to delete and block you on my FB,you know what I am saying.

 

[ramuman]

Originally Posted by forex

I am going to delete and block you on my FB,you know what I am saying.

I thought we'd at least compare shoes at an Atlanta meetup. Way to rip my heart out.

 

[edinatlanta]

Originally Posted by ramuman

I thought we'd at least compare shoes at an Atlanta meetup. Way to rip my heart out.

Hey Ramuman, want to meetup Friday? JK, haz plans.

 

[itsstillmatt]

Originally Posted by deranged

so i can now say this whole fiasco is over and done with.

1 has been in contact with the girl i'm currently seeing and basically used this story to tell the new girl to break up with me. My new girl played along to try to get information out of my psycho ex. The ex told my new girl that she "went to the clinic and got the abortion pill and took it" today and that i'm a huge ass, blah, blah, blah.
I've basically concluded that she wasn't pregnant in the first place, but if she were, she went to the clinic and took the pill.
I'm now just going to cut off contact with the psycho ex forever. We only have 6 mutual friends, and they're all my friends i've introduced to her. I've contacted them all and told them to block/delete her off facebook.
On top of that, I asked the new girl I'm dating to be official gf/bf today and she said yes. She's been very understanding and supportive throughout this whole ordeal, which I can say is the worst experience of my life.

Thank you all your helpful comments and support.

In return, I am willing to post pics of the ex or any reasonable request you guys have.
Sorry, no sex tapes or anything..

Is this like going steady? Do people still do this where you live?

 

[gdl203]

lol do you want to be my official girlfriend? like if someone asks u if i'm your boyfriend, you have to say yes alright? lol

 

[A Canuker]

Originally Posted by Prada_Ferragamo

+1

 

[Svenn]

Originally Posted by WhateverYouLike

I think it is rather holier-than-thou and absurd to criticize the OP for feeling some desire for vengeance after that ****. Either you are all saints or full of ****; there is no way 99% of the population would not be baying for blood after what this girl put him through.

I tend to agree... there are certain, though rare, times when vengeance is necessary and the most psychologically healthy thing to do, both in terms of self-pride and to be instructive to the offender. If he bottles everything inside and represses any urges to stand up for himself, the ex is likely to keep hassling him without ever learning. Some people just need to be yelled at, it's the only language they understand.

As others have said, the surest judgment of someone's maturity level is how they behave in a breakup. Maybe it would be better if relationships started with a breakup so we'd all know what we're getting into, lol

 

[whiteslashasian]

Originally Posted by gdl203

lol do you want to be my official girlfriend? like if someone asks u if i'm your boyfriend, you have to say yes alright? lol

It's like, you're not an official couple unless you're a FaceBook couple, duh.

Gotta be "In a relationship with..." yo.

 

[Kajak]

Originally Posted by east coast

Bra, I'm 20 and don't get it.

I removed a chick on FB who i never talked to and she sent like 10 bloodthirsty texts. I don't get it.

 

[Lane]

maybe she liked you

 

[Dakota rube]

Originally Posted by Lane

maybe she liked you

Officially liked him?
Or just, like, liked him?

 

[deadly7]

Originally Posted by Dakota rube

Officially liked him?
Or just, like, liked him?

Like, I don't know! This is all just too confusing.

I thikn the funniest is when you remove people you haven't talked to in the past five years and they see your name on the "suggested friends" list or whatever and add you again. I always lol.

 

[Reggs]

Originally Posted by deranged

I'm now just going to cut off contact with the psycho ex forever.

Wow, what an idea...

 

[HgaleK]

Originally Posted by Dakota rube

Officially liked him?
Or just, like, liked him?

Doesn't matter if it's not facebook official.

 

[Reggs]

If you still have the pregnancy test pic, check the EXIF data and see when the pic was taken, or even if it's in the native resolution of her cell/camera that she regularly uses.