HgaleK
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made my day lol Thanks, I will keep that in mind the for the next guy.
I suppose this is going to be our thread for women related issues, so I shall post.
There is this girl in my history class, she seems interesting and is cute, only problem is that this other guy is talking to her. I am not sure if its her boyfriend or just a friend but at the beginning of the semester I dont remember her talking to her. I saw them study once and I see them talk after class now, he waits for her and vice versa.
I know that I dress better than this guy and am more built than this guy, and in my opinion I am more pleasing to the aesthetic. but he jumped on her ass before I got a chance, well before I tried.
How should I approach her? I have come to accept that I am a bit timid sometimes and other tiems, i.e. when in uniform, with friends, I grow a pair all of a sudden.
You can never be sure. She could be in the infatuation stage with this guy, at which point anything you do will make you just look like a douche. She could legitimately love him, and the results will be the same. She may also be playing him because she craves attention and he provides it. Your only really opportunity to figure out what's up is go for it. Talk to her, build rapport, act confident, then ask her if she wants to study/get lunch/etc. and take it from there. After you've done your recon work and assessed the situation, then you make your judgement on final course of action.
You said in uniform. You ROTC?