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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)
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MarkI
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So I finally did it, said my peace, and walked out on her.
I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"
I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."
Now I just got home, and early in the night, *********, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----
This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."
didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to ******* suck, but such is life.
serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.
I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"
I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."
Now I just got home, and early in the night, *********, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----
This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."
didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to ******* suck, but such is life.
serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.
kwilkinson
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You made the right move, man. Feel good about that at least.
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mellowfellow: can you give any more details? was it a life choice/profession thing?Originally Posted by Teger
also, go by yourself something nice
Looks like our man is doing the opposite.
Just don't unload everything, mellow, otherwise we'll be forced to deduce that you're hoarding a bunch of pills in preparation to do something stupid.
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Called it quits with crazy girl. After taking her out for lunch, spending about $100 on her on drinks and expensive little pastries and bringing her punting and just having her act like a ***** and try to get me to buy drugs the whole time and saying how **** me taking her out is. I told her I can't do this any more, she's too emotional draining and is making me feel like **** and I don't want to see her any more. She's sending me some crazy messages on fb, just not gonna reply, I can't take her craziness any more. Also she was saying she doesn't think we should ******** any more and as that was an important factor of the relationship so it couldn't have lasted long after that. Ill get some crazy **** from her in about 2 weeks saying how depressed she is, ***** needs to cheer up. She's been refusing medication and therapy for the last few months and she's just gone off the rails.Originally Posted by fuji
Well done lad
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It's tough when you can't tell if you're ******* or going.Originally Posted by pstoller
hahahaha
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So I finally did it, said my peace, and walked out on her.Originally Posted by MarkI
I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"
I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."
Now I just got home, and early in the night, *********, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----
This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."
didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to ******* suck, but such is life.
serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.
It goes up and down. For now, the best is for you to move on. At least you have taken the initiative, and you are the one empowered walking out with her still feeling it was her mistakes that led to you guys separating - an ideal position, much better than the victim hood you were reveling in before.
it's not over. gaurantee it.Originally Posted by Teger
+1. But don't pin your hopes on it though.
randallr says get a running start and bang some strange.Originally Posted by randallr
Best advice in this thread so far.
It's tough when you can't tell if you're ******* or going.Originally Posted by pstoller
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