I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

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  1. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    Fuck this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

    I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?

    Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well.
     


  2. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    as I said it's not through

    you'll see her within the week
     


  3. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    If you get lucky with this first date after the breakup, don't make the same mistake i did and call her by your ex's name. [​IMG]
     


  4. randallr

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    Fuck this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

    I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?

    Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well.


    Wow. That was fast. Got a buncha bitches in your stable?
     


  5. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    Wow. That was fast. Got a buncha bitches in your stable?

    I always keep a couple on the backburner, you know how it is.

    Speaking to her on the phone yesterday just made me depressed though, nothing like the girl, I need to stop comparing.

    I'm really thinking of cancelling, but I know I shouldnt, it's good for me to go out, and this girl is great looking, and a good person in and of herself. Plus I could probably bone.

    BLADHADFS
     


  6. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    If you get lucky with this first date after the breakup, don't make the same mistake i did and call her by your ex's name. [​IMG]

    ahahaha, i will not do this


    as I said it's not through

    you'll see her within the week



    I'm not counting on anything, but I hope.
     


  7. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    my predictions:

    large chance you'll cancel the date

    if you go, won't finish

    the issue is you're not over this girl. compare your posts to mellowfellows.
     


  8. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    ahahaha, i will not do this





    I'm not counting on anything, but I hope.



    your thinking right now is 'maybe if i give her the space she wanted she'll realize how much she msises me and come back to me'

    maybe, maybe not. but whatever happens you still don't have any closure or finality.

    that's why it's not over
     


  9. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Senior member

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    Teger don't need no romance mentors.
     


  10. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    yo we should start maknig paypal bets on what happens. marki you ok with that?
     


  11. gort

    gort Senior member

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    Whatever you do, don't cancel your "date" tonight. Even if you don't try to smash the biscuit, it'll give you something to do instead of sitting around moping and feeling bad about shit.

    Also, this is obvious, but don't talk about your breakup with tonight's girl. At all.
     


  12. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    markI if she called you and was like 'im sorry, lets grab dinner tonight', what would you do?
     


  13. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Senior member

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    [​IMG][​IMG]
     


  14. Matt

    Matt [email protected]

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    Fuck this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

    ok dude, sincere bro love offer follows.

    whenever this urge strikes you, PM me whatever you were going to say. You can get as emo and whiny and bitchy as you like, just get it off your chest and not anywhere near her ears. It'll go no further.

    you are more likely to fuck this up by leaving a door open than by closing one. Think "scarcity". People want what they can't have. Your time needs to be scarce.

    Good for you man, enjoy it.
     


  15. edinatlanta

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    Who in their right mind would want you this bad?

    As I said earlier, the cray-cray is already well familiar to me.

    it's not over. gaurantee it.

    trewf
     


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