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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

MarkI

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**** this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?

Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well.
 

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as I said it's not through

you'll see her within the week
 

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If you get lucky with this first date after the breakup, don't make the same mistake i did and call her by your ex's name.
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Originally Posted by MarkI
**** this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?

Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well.


Wow. That was fast. Got a buncha bitches in your stable?
 

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Originally Posted by randallr
Wow. That was fast. Got a buncha bitches in your stable?

I always keep a couple on the backburner, you know how it is.

Speaking to her on the phone yesterday just made me depressed though, nothing like the girl, I need to stop comparing.

I'm really thinking of cancelling, but I know I shouldnt, it's good for me to go out, and this girl is great looking, and a good person in and of herself. Plus I could probably bone.

BLADHADFS
 

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Originally Posted by kwilkinson
If you get lucky with this first date after the breakup, don't make the same mistake i did and call her by your ex's name.
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ahahaha, i will not do this


Originally Posted by Teger
as I said it's not through

you'll see her within the week



I'm not counting on anything, but I hope.
 

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my predictions:

large chance you'll cancel the date

if you go, won't finish

the issue is you're not over this girl. compare your posts to mellowfellows.
 

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Originally Posted by MarkI
ahahaha, i will not do this





I'm not counting on anything, but I hope.



your thinking right now is 'maybe if i give her the space she wanted she'll realize how much she msises me and come back to me'

maybe, maybe not. but whatever happens you still don't have any closure or finality.

that's why it's not over
 

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Teger don't need no romance mentors.
 

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yo we should start maknig paypal bets on what happens. marki you ok with that?
 

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Whatever you do, don't cancel your "date" tonight. Even if you don't try to smash the biscuit, it'll give you something to do instead of sitting around moping and feeling bad about ****.

Also, this is obvious, but don't talk about your breakup with tonight's girl. At all.
 

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markI if she called you and was like 'im sorry, lets grab dinner tonight', what would you do?
 

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Originally Posted by MarkI
**** this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

ok dude, sincere bro love offer follows.

whenever this urge strikes you, PM me whatever you were going to say. You can get as emo and whiny and bitchy as you like, just get it off your chest and not anywhere near her ears. It'll go no further.

I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?
you are more likely to **** this up by leaving a door open than by closing one. Think "scarcity". People want what they can't have. Your time needs to be scarce.

Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well
Good for you man, enjoy it.
 

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Originally Posted by randallr
Who in their right mind would want you this bad?

As I said earlier, the cray-cray is already well familiar to me.

Originally Posted by Teger
it's not over. gaurantee it.

trewf
 

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