Gibonius
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I sure wouldn't even plan on having kids without being married, but I haven't seen any reason not to get married when kids aren't immediately in the picture.
That would be my summary so far. The "finding the right woman" part is key, and I think a lot of guys disproportionately weight the wrong variables.
I got married at 28 and I'm 30 now So far working out ok for me. No kids in my case though. Did anything particular change in your case, or did you just miss some considerations when you made the decision at 27?
Get married when you are ready to have kids. No sooner.
Go in assuming it will be till death do you part, but prepared for it to end well before then.
I sure wouldn't even plan on having kids without being married, but I haven't seen any reason not to get married when kids aren't immediately in the picture.
If you have the right woman, without a doubt yes it is worth it.
That would be my summary so far. The "finding the right woman" part is key, and I think a lot of guys disproportionately weight the wrong variables.
I married a good deal earlier - 27 - and knowing what I know now I would have waited until I was past 30.
I got married at 28 and I'm 30 now So far working out ok for me. No kids in my case though. Did anything particular change in your case, or did you just miss some considerations when you made the decision at 27?
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