I have been invited to a pre X-mas dinner in two weeks, Dec 10 -12 at my brother's wife's mothers house and I was wondering what should I pack for the three day trip. I have been there before but not for three days straight, I usually go to golf and come home the same day. It is a small town. I don't want to bring more than I need to, but at the same time, I don't want to get caught short either. What are the must bring items?