Shen, you look fine. Some people around here would probably like to be slender, so they make odd comments. The overall appearance is what counts. The jacket is what is used to adjust for length balance. Long legs longer jacket, short legs shorter jacket. Waist height, there is an ideal height overall. Some like them way to high while some others like them way to low. There is a ballpark area to play within. Around here some people have the waistline way way to high. Clothing is visual, so in the art category. No amount of talk will make lousy art better. Some pay lots of money and don't know they are caught up in hype. So, some people pay less money and are better dressed (not counting fit, which is a whole nother ballpark).