willpower
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Girlfriend and I of six years broke up over the weekend. We have so much love for each other but we need some growing to do on ourselves apart. This hurts so much. Right now I'm having a hard time believing in myself that i can move on.
That horrible chest gripping pain eventually subsides. Take some Tylenol, it's actually been proven to reduce the pain of heartbreak. Write down a plan for improving yourself. Lose weight, get a haircut, reorganize your house, take a class. Reconnect with friends. You'll get over this. Relationships that go on for as many years as yours did rarely just grind to a halt. More often they consist of breakups, then reconciliations, then final breakup. Don't be surprised if you guys get back together for a period of time until you break up for good. Don't let this reconciliation period fool you - you broke up for a reason. This is a difficult attitude to take as your brain will be flooded with pleasure chemicals once again - it's honeymoon period. The sex will be great, you'll be overwhelmed with hope. Don't fall for it.