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What the heck do you know about pB that allows you to guess $200? Maybe you are all much closer in real life, but assuming you're all just forum buddies, I have a hard time understanding what your inferences are based on.
Also, too many other factors matter. For example, when my younger cousin got married last year, we were extra generous because we knew they were just starting out and could use the help. Plus, given that I am older, it would not hurt his ego or come across as boastful to do so. Had it been another cousin closer to my age, who perhaps had given us a certain amount for our own wedding, we would adjust accordingly. People are weird about wedding gifts. They are often construed as communicating messages that one may or may not intend.
Also, too many other factors matter. For example, when my younger cousin got married last year, we were extra generous because we knew they were just starting out and could use the help. Plus, given that I am older, it would not hurt his ego or come across as boastful to do so. Had it been another cousin closer to my age, who perhaps had given us a certain amount for our own wedding, we would adjust accordingly. People are weird about wedding gifts. They are often construed as communicating messages that one may or may not intend.
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