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Met this chick and I practically screwed myself.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by polo votarient, Feb 1, 2011.

  1. willpower

    willpower Senior member

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    Fire away. So I'm somewhere by myself, I don't know anyone there, I see an apparently single girl by herself (which is actually pretty rare), I go up to her and say…
    You: "Hi, I'm tagutcow. And you are..." Her: "Therefore I think? Sorry, I'm a dyslexic Descartian. You look like someone who'd know - do you know anybody who gives pool lessons? BTW, I don't know if you're hungry, but I'm off to get a bite to eat. Come with!" or You: "For some reason, a powerful force moved me to introduce myself to you. Hi, I'm tagutcow" Her: "Bogactwo serwisow informacyjnych i finansowych. No speak English" or You: "I'm brave enough to approach you, but I can't think of anything clever to say at the moment so I'm just gonna wing it. Allow me to introduce myself, I'm tagutcow" The last one is honest and reasonably charming. Try that one.
     
  2. intent

    intent Senior member

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    Everyone's finding love on SF [​IMG]
     
  3. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Senior member

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    You: "For some reason, a powerful force moved me to introduce myself to you. Hi, I'm tagutcow"
    This is probably the lamest thing you could ever say to anyone ever.
    Everyone's finding love on SF [​IMG]
    Not me! Unless you count Conne.
     
  4. Rambo

    Rambo Senior member

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    Not me! Unless you count Conne.
    What am I, chopped liver?
     
  5. willpower

    willpower Senior member

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    This is probably the lamest thing you could ever say to anyone ever.
    Yeah, I know. I was making a funnie. The only one that stands a chance is the last one.
     
  6. Unregistered

    Unregistered Senior member

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    Oh how I love you guys [​IMG]
     
  7. intent

    intent Senior member

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    "Oh thank God your knees aren't pointy."
     
  8. Big T

    Big T Senior member

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    I'm telling you again: get a black T-shirt with three howling wolves on it. Drives wimmen crazy! You can find them on Amazon. Look 'em up and read the reviews, but it has to have three wolves.
     
  9. SirWill

    SirWill Member

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    Move on, plenty of fish in the sea. Don't be so clingy next time.
     
  10. coldnyt1

    coldnyt1 Well-Known Member

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    So I met this chick, she was by far the prettiest girl I have met this month and in person things were swell. I mean I started fliting with her and she flirted back and she ended up telling me I was going to have to chase her for like 3 months because she wanted to see if I was really interested, I said okay and I pretty much left. So I sent her a message the first day and this is practically how it went. (I met her this past Friday)

    (FRIDAY)
    Boy:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?
    Girl: we will see [​IMG]
    Boy: well I hope that I dont have to wait three months before I take you out to dinner...but if I have to I will [​IMG]
    Girl: awwwww [​IMG]
    Boy: [​IMG]
    Boy: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?
    Girl: no response

    Saturday
    Boy: have a nice day at work [​IMG]
    Girl: thank you [​IMG]
    Boy: how was your day sweetheart?
    Girl:no response

    Sunday: I did not text her nor did she text me

    Monday:
    Boy: Hope you have a great day [​IMG]
    Girl: no response
    Boy[​IMG] ten hours later) so is this whole ignoring my messages part of the me chasing you part, not that I mind being ignored and all, [​IMG] I just dont want to bother you
    Boy: and I did not say that to be rude in any way, I just dont want to bother you
    Girl:no reply

    So clearly, I came on too strong and I guess I turned her off. Thing is I really want to get to know this chick because she seems like a good girl, so I faced stalked her and found out she had 2500 friends, I was like WTF, but she does work for some trainer who is supposed to be good but whatever. So I obviously did not add her because she is clearly ignoring me I suppose, she seemed into me when I met her friday though and I think I just screwed myself with the texting thing (FUCKING KIDS AND THEIR TEXTING, I NEVER LIKED THIS SHIT TO BEGING WITH) so I want to recover and need advice. Shes the first chick Ive talked to in about 6 months thats my age, the otehr girls were about 6 years my senior. Im 20, so I think we would get along, I at least want a chance with this girl. So if you guys could give me some advice as to how to approach her again, via text I believe is best, I was thinking of trying to establish communication again in a week, probably this coming Monday. What do yall think. Thanks guys.


    dude...quit it... chances are.. you'll fine one pretty soon.. food for thought.. DON'T PUSH IT TOO MUCH...
     
  11. hws

    hws Senior member

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    You must to make sex with this woman, no only this woman, but much woman! [​IMG]
     
  12. dave333

    dave333 Senior member

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    I've been there. Painful, embarassing time of my life.

    Just drink more problem solved.
     
  13. Connemara

    Connemara Senior member

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    You must to make sex with this woman, no only this woman, but much woman! [​IMG]
    You have returned!!! [​IMG]
     
  14. hws

    hws Senior member

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    You have returned!!! [​IMG]
    I was being busy for much time with much bullshits for the work, now I have little time for write something, I am a happy for this! [​IMG]
     
  15. Dakota rube

    Dakota rube Senior member

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    I am a happy for this!

    As are we!
     
  16. Rambo

    Rambo Senior member

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    As we are!
    FTFY
     
  17. hws

    hws Senior member

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    As are we!
    [​IMG]
     
  18. acidboy

    acidboy Senior member

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    You must to make sex with this woman, no only this woman, but much woman! [​IMG]

    [​IMG]

    classic advise! welcome back!!
     
  19. jimmyfingers

    jimmyfingers Senior member

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    Dude.....seriously....PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL HER!!!
    WTF is with all of the texting!!! PICK UP THE PHONE!! how many times can that be said! PICK UP THE PHONE!!!!
    AFTER you get the goods, text all yuou want. Until then, PICK UP THE PHONE!!
    If you are 14 and under, text all you want. Over 14, PICK UP THE FUKKING PHONE!


    This is dead on. I have no clue what the OP was thinking by texting her since she was a "keeper"

    Obiviously you wanted to have a text-a-thon- convo with her. She saw it as "am I not important enough for a phone call?" "he must be insecure if you could not call?" "does he have another woman/ him/wife/babies to where he can't make a phone call since he is surrounded"

    You probably do not want her anyway since the whole "3 months" thing. That is incredibly immature.
     
  20. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    i always text simply because i pick up a lot of girls pretty smashed and dont want to deal with akwardness over the phone. its easier to just send a text and get the feel of everything. im sure phone calls may work better sometimes but i prefer the easy route of texting.
     

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