What the heck, I talk to chicks older than me and dont have a problem, talk to chick younger than me and dont have a problem, and now this girl my age I completly screw up?!?! First off, +1000 to all the posters who said to forget this girl. If I received texts from a girl like the ones you say you sent to her, I'd ignore her messages, too. I know your interest is real, but you need to accept that you put your foot in it. Walk away having learned the lesson. Second, you mentioned at least twice in this thread that you've talked with slightly older women with no issues. If they are interested, what's the big deal? You're 20, she's 24 (25, 26...). You're both still very young, and if she's attractive and you have a good time with her, enjoy it for God's sake! Don't focus on the age. Focus on the person and what they can offer you in a relationship.