MetroStyles
Stylish Dinosaur
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- May 4, 2006
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Mark has a point there about it being disrespectful, but your question about marrying the hottest lay you ever had brings to mind something that's comes up repeatedly through the years in talking about marriage: you're choosing someone for the rest of your life. Eventually you weed through your quota of Mrs. Right-Now's and short-term-good-time girls, and find yourself wanting to settle down, and your criteria might change a bit.
I'm with you. I would never marry on looks or sex alone. But one thing I have realized is that a lack of interesting sex makes me very unhappy. As someone who does not like to cheat, this means bad or just ok sex is something of a dealbreaker for me if I am committing for the rest of my life.