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Originally Posted by mafoofan
You're overthinking it. You don't always know if there's something better out there when you're dating someone.

this is true, and is the problem i have with being in a relationship.

in general, however, the sex in relationships i've had has been far, far better than the one night stands i've had.

i attribute part of this to the fact that in the one night stands, despite some of the girls being really hot, most of them have had frikken bland personalities and low self esteem. I hate the fact that for girls having one night stands is frowned upon, so only the ones with low self esteem do it.

there are the rarity who are incredibly confident and do what they want. i wish there were more girls like this.
 

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Originally Posted by edmorel
Girls with low self esteem are wonderful in the sack.

Yes.
 

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Originally Posted by edmorel
Girls with low self esteem are wonderful in the sack.

Originally Posted by Dakota rube
Yes.

I defer to your clear expertise, but this is not my experience. Or perhaps the only women who have agreed to sleep with me have low self esteem, I don't know. But the low SE women in my experience tend to "hold back" in bed.
 

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Low self-esteem = boring sex. Even if you can get a girl with low-esteem to do whatever you want, where's the fun in that? Unless you believe a girl actually wants to do what she's doing to please you, I can't understand the appeal. I'd just feel dirty and empty.
 

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Originally Posted by edmorel
Girls with low self esteem are wonderful in the sack.

Originally Posted by mafoofan
Low self-esteem = boring sex. Even if you can get a girl with low-esteem to do whatever you want, where's the fun in that? Unless you believe a girl actually wants to do what she's doing to please you, I can't understand the appeal. I'd just feel dirty and empty.

yeah.

this one girl in particular.

or maybe it was me who made the sex shit because i find low self esteem unattractive. she was really hot, but the more i talked to her, the less attracted to her i became. i sexed her anyway, but it was shit.
 

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Originally Posted by mafoofan
Low self-esteem = boring sex. Even if you can get a girl with low-esteem to do whatever you want, where's the fun in that? Unless you believe a girl actually wants to do what she's doing to please you, I can't understand the appeal. I'd just feel dirty and empty.

Don't you feel dirty and empty enough after the ONS anyway?
 

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Don't you feel dirty and empty enough after the ONS anyway?

No, not really. Although, I imagine it's different if you're drunk or she's drunk.
 

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the short flings are always the hottest. not the one night stands, but the one-to-two week stands, where you end up staying in bed for days and only emerging to eat and use the toilet.
 

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I chose former girlfriend, which slightly oversells our relationship - we dated for a couple of months, I wouldn't call her a 'girlfriend' - but certainly more than a random hookup.

Anyhow, ya, umm....Kyle's seen pictures. He's objective.
 

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Originally Posted by mafoofan
No, not really. Although, I imagine it's different if you're drunk or she's drunk.

I've never had one unless it involved copious amounts of liquor for both... I guess I don't have enough game for sober pick ups.
 

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