pstoller
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I can certainly understand the desire to wear "peacock plumage" to attract a mate, be it in a club or on the street. However, to make a corollary to LA Guy's point, is someone who doesn't share your values"”aesthetic or otherwise"”a person whose regard is worth having? That doesn't mean they have to know Zegna or Canali by name, but they should be able to recognize and appreciate the quality of those garments (and, more importantly, how good you look in them). If a woman needs to see a familiar logo to know you're well-dressed, what does she really know about clothes? Likewise with the loafers. You should wear them because you like them. If somebody else "gets" your shoes, even if they don't know what they are, then you've found a kindred spirit (to the extent that spiritual kinship can be assessed via footwear).one dominant motivation for buying such items is that it's easier to catch the eye of a young lady in a club, and then seduce her (or at least make an attempt to). The thing around here is that I have yet to find anyone who even knows what Zegna, or Canali, or any other similar label is. People seem not to appreciate the finer aspects of anything around these parts, whether it's fashion, or fine dining, or whatever, so the effort is wasted. Case in point is that I have a pair of Tod's Ferrari driving loafers, but rarely wear them since, sadly, people have no understanding of what Tod's is.
I think Beau Brummel went a step too far. Your own words are more to the point: in certain contexts, it's best not to call attention directly to one's clothes. If you can call attention to yourself visually in a positive way without your clothing standing out as the eye-magnet, then you're probably quite well-dressed.I saw a quotation somewhere attributed to Beau Brummel that seems pertinent:Â "If you noticed me, I was not well dressed."Â Some might consider this an old-fashioned theory of dressing, but I think it's valuable. In business, or in certain social circles, one is better off not calling attention directly to one's clothes...