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The hardest thing I've ever done...

Eason

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was breaking up with my girlfriend of 3 years just now... she wanted to settle down and marry me... she begged and pleaded... she said she'd do anything. I had to let her go... Just wasn't happy with long distance, and I knew we were just too young. **** sucks.
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VKK3450

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Sorry to hear it man. Long distance blows, and not in the good way

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mrpologuy

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Long distance is very hard. i did it for 3 years and it didn't work out in the end. it hurt real bad. Things will get better soon. Buying a new tie always cheers me up.
 

CTGuy

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So sorry to hear that man. There's no way to goof on that situation.

Take care and remember that eventually it'll pass.
 

kwilkinson

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Man that's rough. At least you had the balls to end something you knew needed to end. A lot of people I know, maybe because of my age, would have let it drag out for a lot longer. That takes some cajones.
 

TheIdler

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Sorry to hear that. FWIW, I was in a similar situation a long time ago, and I'm now extremely grateful that I had the wisdom to know the right decision and the character to actually do it. You obviously have both. Good luck to you.
 

IUtoSLU

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Good job having the courage to do what you knew you had to do.
 

Omar1223

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Sorry to hear that man. I was someone who didn't have the strength to end it when I should have and believe me you made the right decision.

Good luck.
 

yachtie

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Just so 30 years from know you're not some lonely dissapated guy sitting in some scuzzy bar kicking yourself ********** about lost opprtunities for happiness.
 

itsstillmatt

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From my own experience and that which I have seen from my friends, we rarely make a mistake when we end a relationship. Far more often, we stay in one we should not. That doesn't mean that you won't regret your decision sometimes, we all do, but you probably made the right one, assuming that you thought it over before you made it.
 

RichValentine

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Yeah, sorry to hear it. Breaking up is always hard to do, but you definitely did the right and honourable thing in making your intentions clear. You obviously weren't finding the long distance easy and although this is hard to hear at the moment and it is a huge cliche, there are plenty of women out there and you are still young. You will be able to find someone in a situation and location much more convenient for you.

Good luck.
 

globetrotter

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Originally Posted by iammatt
From my own experience and that which I have seen from my friends, we rarely make a mistake when we end a relationship. Far more often, we stay in one we should not. That doesn't mean that you won't regret your decision sometimes, we all do, but you probably made the right one, assuming that you thought it over before you made it.

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feel for you - this is very hard, but often, when something you do is hard, that is the best indication that you are doing the right thing.
 

Arethusa

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Don't have Matt's perspective and I don't have yours, but I did make a decision somewhat like this. Not easy, but it wouldn't be much of a decision if it were. Hope you're both alright.
 

Go Surface

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Probably even harder for her, seeing as her dreams have been shattered. Either way, its a difficult situation. I'm sure you'll both find ways to cope, and eventually get over it.
 

JetBlast

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Ah man sorry to hear this. Remember that your SF sartorial-mates are here if you need us.

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