thefastlife
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i actually did this over the weekend. got the gf to come in a cab to one in new orleans. that was an interesting experience.
Its been a few years now I've been thrifting regularly. Now fellas, this is a gradual climb up to being able to have an open face relationship with Thrifting + Wifey all in the same happy boat.
-Try showing benefits to her about it. I have always been into clothing, style, and everything in between. Thrifting was an extension of all that, which she saw and understood.
-Try inviting her to go, which will be a slow progress, but eventually, she will be down to go every once in awhile.
-I've now turned this hobby into something that is lucrative, and those benefits I've certainly shared with her. aka, monetary transactions stemmed from my PP DC.
-Last week for the first time, I received a picture text from the wifey of some furniture & clothing she went to go look at at SA during her lunch break... On her own time, she went to a thrift store. I about fell back in my chair at work. That was big for me!
I can now openly plan thrifting routes and loops for our out of town trips, and have her be on-board with all of it.
So in the end, this was a slow progress for me, but I wouldn't have it any other way. As time goes on, she will be even more involved with all of it.
i actually did this over the weekend. got the gf to come in a cab to one in new orleans. that was an interesting experience.