Moving in with your girlfriend...

[TintoTerra]

Decided to let my girlfriend move in as of last week. As I've always fled from this sort of thing before, I don't know what to expect. Is it going to suck horribly at first then get better? Are the ominous comments about the number of coats I own a sign of trouble to come? Is my life over?

Anyone care to give some advice?

 

[ter1413]

Murder/suicide asap!

 

[Big Pun]

How long have you been together?

 

[Vintage Gent]

Originally Posted by TintoTerra

Is it going to suck horribly at first then get better?

No, not at all. Chances are, it's going to suck horribly at first then get worse.

 

[ter1413]

Originally Posted by Vintage Gent

No, not at all. Chances are, it's going to suck horribly at first then get worse.

LOL!

 

[indesertum]

i dunno why anybody would ever want to do this. it's like getting married before actually getting married

 

[ter1413]

and hearing constant nagging w/o the need!!

 

[TintoTerra]

Originally Posted by Big Punisher

How long have you been together?


5 months.

 

[oneeightyseven]

Originally Posted by TintoTerra

5 months.

yeah, don't do it. I've been with mine for 2 and a half years and see each other daily. I would NOT consider living with her. I even told her that if I ever won the lottery and was immediately stable, she still would not move in lol.

 

[ConcernedParent]

Originally Posted by TintoTerra

5 months.

WTF.....

 

[Davidko19]

I saw the title of this thread and immediately knew it was bad. But after 5 months???

Dude, your still in the honeymoon stage. Enjoy it. Before long her crap will invade your space and she'll start pooping with the door open. total romance killer. EDIT: Tell us about the finance situation. You ARE making her pay half of EVERYTHING, right? And I mean EVERYTHING (rent, food, bills, chores, etc...) if you say she is paying anything less than 50% then you're a sucker. Lets hear this....could get good....

 

[kwilkinson]

LOL OP is screwed. Might as well break up now.

 

[suited]

My gf is about to move in, and we've only been together for 4 months. Beat that.

In all seriousness, she lived in my building for the first 3 months, so she literally lived here already, so I know what to expect. It depends on what your current situation is, in regards to how big of a change it's going to be...

 

[ter1413]

Originally Posted by TintoTerra

5 months.

5 MONTHS!! Please bag up whatever you are smoking and fwd to me and I will send you money via Paypal. That has to be some good $hit!

 

[Harold falcon]

Originally Posted by Davidko19

... she'll start pooping with the door open. total romance killer.

Actually, that kind of works for me.

The moving in not so much.