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Is your best friend of the opposite sex?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by cheessus, Dec 13, 2009.

  1. Wallcloud

    Wallcloud Senior member

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    I have girlfriends I view in a completely platonic way. I should point out, I am married and guard myself against becoming anything more than platonic with a religous zeal.
     
  2. SkinnyGoomba

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    ^seems dangerous to me, If I were married I believe I would avoid having friendships with women outside of work.

    But i'm not married, so I do what i want. Which probably explains the random phone call/hang-up i got from a restricted #.....weird. So if you guys dont hear from me anymore you know it was some girl's angry BF that killed me. [​IMG]
     
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    try upgrading to a mail-order bride... same advantages plus sex and given the right training, cleans dishes and irons clothes...and then dumps your sorry ass when she gets her green card
    FTFY
     
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    I know a guy going through that now...
     
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    uhurit Senior member

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    On a serious note, one of the problems for me with having female platonic "friends" has been one simple fact of life: women operate on a totally different orbit, emotionally and mentally...that's this Mars/Venus shit...banal, yet true. Friendship is about understanding each other, no? If men and women do not understand each other by definition and operate totally differently, I don't see how it can really work. Just me, though
     
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    I have female friends to bitch to when my estrogen levels are overflowing- I dare not show this weakness to my male friends... plus they are more receptive anyway.
     
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    Yes, she is also my wife of 25 yrs.
     
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    RedLantern Senior member

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    IME, the right kind of girl makes the best wingman.
     
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    My best friend is a Lesbian ... does the "NO HOMO" disqualify? I get so sick of this "(no homo)" crap. I'm very tempted to have a thread that disqualifies anyone who has ever used the term "no homo."
     
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    My best friend is a Lesbian ... does the "NO HOMO" disqualify? I get so sick of this "(no homo)" crap. I'm very tempted to have a thread that disqualifies anyone who has ever used the term "no homo."

    Is better when both persons will not to be attract the other, is pathÃ[​IMG]tique when man allow woman to tease his pÃ[​IMG]nis but never make nothing for him, no lip pÃ[​IMG]nis, nothing, also when other persons have situation similar of this!

    This is my idea of most simple combination for person have friend:

    for man hÃ[​IMG][​IMG]ro - other man hÃ[​IMG][​IMG]ro

    for woman hÃ[​IMG][​IMG]ro - other woman hÃ[​IMG][​IMG]ro

    for gay - lesbienne

    for lesbienne - gay

    for bisexuel/bisexuelle - I do not to know this one, maybe is most simple have no friend!

    Now I must to say, "NO HOMO!" [​IMG]
     
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    hws Senior member

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    IME, the right kind of girl makes the best wingman.
    This is correct, when man is jung is ok have woman more old for this "wingman" thing you speak, no so old for she can to seem to be his mother, but little more old to him, someone speak me that in America this new vocabulary is call "cougar," maybe woman who before was sex friend for the man more jung, this make other girl, girl more jung, who maybe can to be not only sex friend for man, curious of man! Best is invite girl more jung for make mÃ[​IMG]nage à trois! [​IMG]
     
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    This is my idea of most simple combination for person have friend.
    Simplicity may not appeal to everyone. [​IMG]

    Some of us may prefer a challenge.
     
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    Simplicity may not appeal to everyone. [​IMG] Some of us may prefer a challenge.
    I understand what you speak, the first sentence. For the second thing you speak, you have had a luck to make sex with lesbienne? [​IMG]
     
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    Maybe much fool prefer challenge, much woman think she can to change a gay to be hÃ[​IMG][​IMG]ro, much man think he can to make mÃ[​IMG]nage à trois with two lesbiennes!
    I speak before only the things which is most simples, not the things which is prefer to all persons!
     
  15. GusW

    GusW Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    I'm very tempted to have a thread that disqualifies anyone who has ever used the term "no homo."


    That would be a short thread.
     

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