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How frequently (or infrequently) do you meet virgins?

vitaminc

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Originally Posted by Gradstudent78
+1 I've had to teach enough women to be comfortable with sex and It's really just too much work. Chances are any women who is a virgin past 25 has hangups about sex, just doesn't like it, or is saving herself specifically for marriage. One and two isn't for me and three is too much of a crapshoot. No guarantee that we will be sexually compatible in anyway.

Some girls are technically virgins but do great *****.

Originally Posted by pocketsquareguy
Guys, I would think twice about dating virgins older than 20. It usually means that you will be chasing someone who 1) isn't that into sex (especially the fun, playful type) and 2) isn't that good at intimate relations. That has been my experience anyway.

Would depend a lot on cultural background and upbringing.
 

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Originally Posted by blackplatano
I think age is very important in this discussion. i would like to marry a virgin. It probably won't happen, unless I marry an evangelist apparently.
Your best bet would be finding someone from a second world country that hasn't yet been corrupted by Western movies. The best you can hope for otherwise is someone who wishes they were a virgin (or possibly a virgin by an antiquated technicality), as opposed to most "liberated" women you meet today.
 

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My first thought was "I don't know any," but when I thought about it some more I realized that's not true. I have a friend I've known since HS who is still a virgin. He'll be 30 this year. He's dated a couple of girls, but never for long. I don't know how much he's done, but I know for certain he's never had sex. I think for him there's a bit of a religious component, but I think it's also one of those things where it's become some sort of mental block. When everyone we know started dating in high school or, for some, college he never did, and I think he's gotten so far behind now that it's hard for him to have a relationship. Most (if not all) of the women you meet in your late 20s have dated and built up experience in relationship, and he doesn't have any experience or emotional maturity. His relationship experience has been, quite literally, marsupialed.

I also know two women, both in their mid 20s, who are virgins. I know one is for sure, and the other I'm 95% sure. They're both casual acquaintances I've met in the last couple of years. For both it's a religious thing.
 

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Originally Posted by vitaminc
Some girls are technically virgins but do great *****.

Who the **** wants a great hand job!?!?!?!

I think this thread is about done. We have all agreed on the 3 following points:
1. No one should want to marry a virgin
2. If your over 25 and a virgin there is something wrong with you
3. This place is filled with dudes who need to get their dick wet

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Originally Posted by whiteslashasian
I know a couple of 22+ year old virgins.

One of my best female friends is 24 soon to be 25 and still a virgin. She's pretty but a little...crazy and has never been in a relationship longer than 3 months. She's also "saving herself"...

I feel bad for guys who meet her...
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Instead, she should be "shaving herself"
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Married one ------ met her in my junior year in college. I would not say I was a swordsman but got around very well.

Usually stay out of these BS type threads but who here can say that they married a virgin, she is still a hottie (weighed 101 on the honeymoon now she is a whopping 106), never cheated on each other, outstanding mom and celebrating the 25year anniversary next month? Not very many I will wager so those of you that say never marry a virgin (may be a little merit to the experience thing but that is overrated) unfortunately, you have or did not meet the right one.
 

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I think I know some really homely girls from high school (and some real loser dudes) who still haven't gotten laid. But the number is probably rather low.
 

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Originally Posted by Busa Dave
Married one ------ met her in my junior year in college. I would not say I was a swordsman but got around very well.

Usually stay out of these BS type threads but who here can say that they married a virgin, she is still a hottie (weighed 101 on the honeymoon now she is a whopping 106), never cheated on each other, outstanding mom and celebrating the 25year anniversary next month? Not very many I will wager so those of you that say never marry a virgin (may be a little merit to the experience thing but that is overrated) unfortunately, you have or did not meet the right one.


No, but I told a few girls that I'd marry them before they lost their virginity.
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Not worth it, all things being equal a girl with "enough" experience is best.

And, now that Conne's posted in this thread, I kind of have met a virgin today!
 

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Originally Posted by Connemara
I think I know some really homely girls from high school (and some real loser dudes) who still haven't gotten laid. But the number is probably rather low.
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I've always balked at this concept of needing to ensure "sexual compatability" before getting married - what, you mean in case she has a dick or something? What a load of crap!
 

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Originally Posted by Contingency Plan
I've always balked at this concept of needing to ensure "sexual compatability" before getting married - what, you mean in case she has a dick or something? What a load of crap!

Wait until you ******** with someone, then it will all make sense.
 

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Originally Posted by Szeph el ratón
Why would you do that? Ever seen a restaurant hire a cook that has never been in a kitchen?

If I should ever marry I want to make sure it's a woman who knows what she is doing when the lights go out.
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Definitely. Experience has its privileges.
 

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