ex lied about being pregnant! thanks for all your help.

[fss]

Suggest to join her to the abortion clinic. It's the only way to be absolutely sure she will not be keeping it and surprises you later on.

 

[Stazy]

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[MetroStyles]

On second thought, I'm not so sure a gift is a good idea in any case. Just an honest heart-to-heart or a letter or something. No need for the gift...it might turn her more psycho. No more mixed signals from here on man.

 

[deranged]

Originally Posted by fss

Suggest to join her to the abortion clinic. It's the only way to be absolutely sure she will not be keeping it and surprises you later on.

I suggested this, but she wants to go with her mom.
She just called me and she said she's going to do it today.

I'm thinking more and more that she was never prego to start with and was playing me this whole time.
How can you do a 180 within 30 minutes and then decide to go to a clinic to get it done within the hour?

I never actually saw her take the prego test. She told me she took the first one. She dropped the second one i bought for her in the toilet by "accident" when i wanted her to take one in front of me. we bought a third one and she "couldn't pee" anymore. She used the third one at home and sent me a grainy picture of it saying pregnant.

There was no actual proof that she ever was prego. She could have been a good actress and just pretended to sound distressed so i would stay on the phone with her for hours.

She told me not to tell anyone about this, not even her friends... wouldn't she have at least went to her friends for advice? She texts me all happy and tells me "Haha you hamster, you owe me your life now =p". that's not someone who is about to get an abortion sounds like.

This whole pregnancy thing only started once she found out i was dating someone else...

Am i reading too much into this? I'm tempted to call her friends and ask if she's the type that would fabricate a story like this, but i won't do it until she supposedly gets her abortion.

 

[BlackShoes]

She was never pregnant.

100%

 

[texas_jack]

Originally Posted by deranged

I suggested this, but she wants to go with her mom.
She just called me and she said she's going to do it today.

I'm thinking more and more that she was never prego to start with and was playing me this whole time.
How can you do a 180 within 30 minutes and then decide to go to a clinic to get it done within the hour?

I never actually saw her take the prego test. She told me she took the first one. She dropped the second one i bought for her in the toilet by "accident" when i wanted her to take one in front of me. we bought a third one and she "couldn't pee" anymore. She used the third one at home and sent me a grainy picture of it saying pregnant.

There was no actual proof that she ever was prego. She could have been a good actress and just pretended to sound distressed so i would stay on the phone with her for hours.

She told me not to tell anyone about this, not even her friends... wouldn't she have at least went to her friends for advice? She texts me all happy and tells me "Haha you hamster, you owe me your life now =p". that's not someone who is about to get an abortion sounds like.

This whole pregnancy thing only started once she found out i was dating someone else...

Am i reading too much into this? I'm tempted to call her friends and ask if she's the type that would fabricate a story like this, but i won't do it until she supposedly gets her abortion.

Doesn't matter. Like I said NEVER TALK TO HER AGAIN

 

[MetroStyles]

Originally Posted by BlackShoes

She was never pregnant.

100%

+1, with these new revelations. Sounds like she is a terrible person. Stay far, far away from her or those she associates with.

 

[deranged]

i'm not going to contact her once i find out that she's gotten the abortion.
she just txt me and told me she is on her way to the doctor's by herself.
she doesn't live with her mom and she said its too much of a hassle to get her mom to come all the way down to toronto and she wants it done asap....

how should i get proof? should i ask her for a doctor's note?

edit: i offered to go with her, but she wants to do it herself.

 

[MetroStyles]

No proof b/c she isn't preggos bro.

 

[HgaleK]

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

No proof b/c she isn't preggos bro.

+1

Cut off all contact immediately.

 

[deranged]

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

No proof b/c she isn't preggos bro.
should i confront her or just ignore her after she says she's done with the abortion?
what if she was actually pregnant? that would make me a huge dick. should i take the chance?

 

[MetroStyles]

Originally Posted by deranged

should i confront her or just ignore her after she says she's done with the abortion? what if she was actually pregnant? that would make me a huge dick. should i take the chance?
Don't talk to her after she is done with it. a) If really got abortion, she is done with it. b) If preggo, faked abortion (unlikely), ignoring her will reduce her hopes of a future with you and lead her to sanity. c) If faking all along, who cares.' Edit: I mean a sympathetic text reply back or phone response is fine, but be curt and then no more contact.

 

[deranged]

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

Don't talk to her after she is done with it.

a) If really got abortion, she is done with it.
b) If preggo, faked abortion (unlikely), ignoring her will reduce her hopes of a future with you and lead her to sanity.
c) If faking all along, who cares.'

Edit: I mean a sympathetic text reply back or phone response is fine, but be curt and then no more contact.

i'm going to stick to this. i'll keep you guys updated as i know more.
i wish i was on the outside looking in through this whole saga.
thank you all again!

 

[rach2jlc]

Wow, this thread was bad before, and even worse now.

A lot of you (aside from the few who I can tell are joking) are really, really, pathetic and awful human beings. Seriously, seriously, seriously.

I can't believe that the stupidity and sheer douchebaggery on display is simply a product of age; being a horrendous,vacuous and egotistical shitbag doesn't depend on your age. Some of you are just rotten and it feels nasty to be on the same forum with you. The fistbumping and "man dat ***** trapped you, brah, she prob not even pregnant damn!" is awful. I hope no female members of the forum actually read this thread.

You are no catch, OP. No catch at all. Your partner may not be either, but that's beside the point.

 

[Macallan9]

**** her.

All the people calling for you to take responsibility are immature pussies. Man up and abandon the fetus. No MAN would be tied down to something he didn't want to be with, dontcha know? Don't listen to those too unintelligent to agree with me. That would be UNBELIEVABLE. I cannot believe what I am reading in this thread!1!! Their morals are so wrong!