Putting on my serious hat for a second, you are severely taking words and twisting them. It's not ENTIRELY her fault, no. Not even the most childish and misogynistic of us are saying that. It is her fault for not doing the right thing and getting an abortion, instead of bringing a child into a broken family where it won't have any contact with a father. And yes, THAT is the right thing to do. You're taking these comments and saying that anyone on the other side hates women, which is absurd as you should recognize. We all have women in our lives that we love and would lay our lives down for. But OP doesn't owe a woman he casually dated for 4 weeks anything. More importantly he does not owe anything to a woman that: 1) Lied about being on the pill 2) Lied about getting an abortion if she would ever get pregnant with him 3) Possibly lied about being pregnant and changed her story several times 4) Sent incendiary and mean-spirited texts like "haha you owe your life to me" He did the responsible thing beforehand: He had a talk to her about whether she would get an abortion or not, he asked about the pill and she said she was on it, and then he proceeded to have sex after that. She lied about all of that. That, my friend, is why he is justified. Not the 4-week thing.