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I don't need to look it up, there are other ways to achieve the same effect (Pavlovian response) without using violence.
well Pavlov used to electrocute those dogs dude, perhaps that'll work on your kids, but I wouldn't recommend it.
Beat me now, beat me later, just beat me. Bad behavior has consequences and the sooner we learn that lesson the better.
That's true. But again does that correlate with the way the adults were brought up as kids? It's a cycle. But I think some parents are so afraid of being labeled as abusers that they fail to educate and discipline their kids. Excessive of anything is bad, but I think when parents need to keep a firm hand on their kids behaviors, spanking can be utilized as a resourceful tool. I grew up in China where spanking was/is commonly practiced. My mom used to hit me everywhere with any household object she could get her hands on. Do I hate my mom? No. Do i think it's a bit excessive, Yes. Would I hit my kids in the future like my mom did to me, definitely no. But the hitting correct alot of my bad behaviors when I was younger, and I came to respect my parents and the hard work they had to put in to raise me.
That is fine, but it didn't have to be physical punishment. It could have been a timeout, loss of desert, or grounding for a few day and a lot of your bad behavior would have been corrected. Two question to those who were spanked. Did they have to punish you harder and you grew older (to cause more pain as you grow stronger and more tolerant) and at what age did it stop?
That is fine, but it didn't have to be physical punishment. It could have been a timeout, loss of desert, or grounding for a few day and a lot of your bad behavior would have been corrected. Two question to those who were spanked. Did they have to punish you harder and you grew older (to cause more pain as you grow stronger and more tolerant) and at what age did it stop?