I'm Single...

[SoCal2NYC]

Originally Posted by Connemara

As you well know, I'm not cheap.

You should be, with those kidneys you're damaged goods.

 

[Bradford]

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

That and sex went from every night to 3-4x a week.

Oh whine, whine... you should try being married

 

[edmorel]

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

Well sexually he was rather "liberated", he would let me have as many 3 ways with us as we wanted.

Honestly, as much fun as that is, that should be your first sign that the guy probably isn't in to you for the long term.

BTW, does he have a like minded sister?

 

[FLMountainMan]

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

That and sex went from every night to 3-4x a week.

That's weird to me. Two guys and that's it? Is there any significance to the fact that you're taking a break until the day after Valentine's Day?

 

[edmorel]

Originally Posted by iammatt

yeah, we know.

I had not noticed the edit and was thinking, what the hell is he talking about??

 

[imageWIS]

Originally Posted by edmorel

BTW, does he have a hot like minded sister?

Fixed.

(just making sure Ed that you don't get the ugly end of the stick {no pun intended})

Jon.

 

[texas_jack]

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

Well sexually he was rather "liberated", he would let me have as many 3 ways with us as we wanted.

Originally Posted by edmorel

Honestly, as much fun as that is...


Busted.

 

[SoCal2NYC]

Originally Posted by edmorel

Honestly, as much fun as that is, that should be your first sign that the guy probably isn't in to you for the long term.

Not really, it was me who wanted it and who brought it up. He was entirely about pleasing and satisfying me and if that is what I wanted then he was fine with it. But, each time I could tell after he was a little sad and I would have to talk to him and explain to him that it is just fun now and then.

Originally Posted by FLMountainMan

That's weird to me. Two guys and that's it? Is there any significance to the fact that you're taking a break until the day after Valentine's Day?

Well I wanted to talk again on the 13th and maybe see what happenes and still go to dinner. He said no that would be stupid and meaningless.

 

[lawyerdad]

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

Not really, it was me who wanted it and who brought it up. He was entirely about pleasing and satisfying me and if that is what I wanted then he was fine with it. But, each time I could tell after he was a little sad and I would have to talk to him and explain to him that it is just fun now and then.




This sounds like one of the few episodes of "Six Feet Under" I ever say.

 

[edmorel]

Originally Posted by texas_jack

Busted.

OOPS!!!

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

Not really, it was me who wanted it and who brought it up. He was entirely about pleasing and satisfying me and if that is what I wanted then he was fine with it. But, each time I could tell after he was a little sad and I would have to talk to him and explain to him that it is just fun now and then.



Ok, so then you are a selfish, label whoring prick and it is you that are not really ready for a relationship. I've known two couples that had a smiliar situation to yours. Both are divorced. "Fun now and then" with different partners and "long term relationship with one person" usually don't compute.

I should do a gay version of Dear Abby.

 

[globetrotter]

Originally Posted by Bradford

Oh whine, whine... you should try being married

yeah, really. I am still waiting for my vasectamy to pay off.

 

[lawyerdad]

Jeez, and I thought I'd been sharing too much lately with the cholesterol comments and whatnot . . .

 

[edmorel]

Originally Posted by globetrotter

yeah, really. I am still waiting for my vasectamy to pay off.

I only allow female tongues around my scrotum and even then, I watch them like a hawk.

 

[SoCal2NYC]

Originally Posted by edmorel

OOPS!!!

Ok, so then you are a selfish, label whoring prick and it is you that are not really ready for a relationship. I've known two couples that had a smiliar situation to yours. Both are divorced. "Fun now and then" with different partners and "long term relationship with one person" usually don't compute.

I should do a gay version of Dear Abby.

Yes on the selfish, label whoring prick. I'm ready for a relationship...but, I don't think with a 19 year old.

Also, I disagree that swinging now and then can not compute with LTR.

 

[SoCal2NYC]

I may have to start working out again....