I prefer to pay. If she offers to split and it's a bad date then I'm happy. If it's a good one, I tell her the next time we go out she can pay her share. I think it's pretty lame though as I prefer a little old fashioned point of view of the guy taking care of things (in general). However, I cannot stand women who feel entitled to the benefits of being treated very well but are actually lazy, stupid, tramps.