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Should You Marry Someone Your Age or Someone Much Younger?

chuckseabreeze

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Originally Posted by crazyquik
I think more important than aging is just preventing flabby upper arms. I can't stand those. I notice them more and more lately too
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Amen brother, one of my true pet peeves on women. Seinfeld-type deal breaker, as extreme as that may sound...
 

chuckseabreeze

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Originally Posted by Jumbie
I'm not gonna lie, I've thought about "aging" and wonder if I will cast my eye towards a "nubile, young thing" when I get older. I've seen it happen lots around me with my parents friends and with society in general.

However, I'm not going to give up a great thing for what could be. Our sex life is great, she's intelligent so we can talk (even if we have different interests), she treats me well, isn't materialistic and she's a looker. She isn't perfect but neither am I. There is way more good than bad in our relationship and it's not worth all of that just to have a younger woman.


Sounds great, congratulations
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Sounds like a very mature relationship. I guess I have a problem, because it's hard for me imagine myself NOT really wanting the hot 25 year old when I'm 45. I guess most of the time it's not a problem if you are 45 and don't have money or look like george clooney.
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But what do I know?
 

Jumbie

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Originally Posted by chuckseabreeze
I guess most of the time it's not a problem if you are 45 and don't have money or look like george clooney.
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Aren't you in medical school? One of the guys in my class said his friend said his dick turned to gold when he got his M.D. lol
 

Davidko19

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You need to look up Leykis 101. This tells you all you need to know. Dont marry, period.
 

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Originally Posted by chuckseabreeze
This is a personal decision, but women age faster than men, and most men date girls 1, maybe 2 years younger than them while in college.

You make two very interesting assumptions here. The first is based purely on opinion. I've seen many men who have aged much faster than women their age.

The second should be based on data. What makes you think "most men" date women younger than them in college?

How about marrying someone you love so that when her **** sag you don't care? And likewise, when ********* goes limp she doesn't care. It's a thought.

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Tokyo Slim

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Originally Posted by rdawson808
You make two very interesting assumptions here. The first is based purely on opinion. I've seen many men who have aged much faster than women their age. The second should be based on data. What makes you think "most men" date women younger than them in college? How about marrying someone you love so that when her **** sag you don't care? And likewise, when ********* goes limp she doesn't care. It's a thought. b
*******'s gonna go limp? Goddamn it.
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Something interesting... they say that women reach their sexual peak in their 30s and men reach their sexual peak in their early 20's. That said I've always loved the idea of getting it on with a lovely nubile teen.

I wish I could marry someone in her teens, someone in her twenties (my age) and someone in her 30's.
 

robbie

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I am 22, my fiance is 26.

I believe as long as two well adjusted adults are entering a relationship together age is somewhat irrelevant.
 

Tokyo Slim

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Originally Posted by m@T
I'm pretty sure you will be the only one who notices.
Yeah, but I'll notice between one and eight times a day...
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Jumbie

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Originally Posted by Tokyo Slim
Yeah, but I'll notice between one and eight times a day...
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Damn, that's a lot. Most was 5 for me.
 

GQgeek

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Originally Posted by Jumbie
Aren't you in medical school? One of the guys in my class said his friend said his dick turned to gold when he got his M.D. lol

It's true. My friend is in residency right now and he says it started when he was in his final year of med school. He has to beat girls away with a stick and they get really weird with him. Every girl he dates wants to marry him basically.

Originally Posted by rdawson808
You make two very interesting assumptions here. The first is based purely on opinion. I've seen many men who have aged much faster than women their age.

The second should be based on data. What makes you think "most men" date women younger than them in college?

How about marrying someone you love so that when her **** sag you don't care? And likewise, when ********* goes limp she doesn't care. It's a thought.

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No.

Seriously, I'm marrying as young as i can. I go by the 1/2 +7 rule. It's just one of several guidelines though. I'm absolutely paranoid about having a wife that turns fat on me. Sex with fat chicks is my Room 101.
 

Jumbie

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Originally Posted by GQgeek
It's true. My friend is in residency right now and he says it started when he was in his final year of med school. He has to beat girls away with a stick and they get really weird with him. Every girl he dates wants to marry him basically.
Cha-ching!!!
 

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