So my girlfriend lives in a fairly large family. She is the second eldest, and the only girl. Her oldest brother, is a nurse (education paid entirely for by his parents) and makes a 6-figure income after bonuses and such. Her oldest brother lives in his parents' basement in an old semi-dilapidated house which, to get some additional income, is split into a bunch of small bedrooms to host international students throughout the year. My girlfriend lives in a makeshift room in the attic while the parents sleep in a mattress on the floor in a room the size of a large linen closet next door. He drives a riced up Honda Prelude that was bought on a loan from his parents. He has put more money into that car than the car itself is worth. After refusing to pay the car loan, his parents had to re-finance the house to help pay it off. Several months ago he got into a road rage incident, where he took a lead pipe out of his trunk, only to be manually subdued by the other, larger, driver. He is being charged with assault, and has mounting legal fees (which I hope to god his parents aren't going to be paying for). When his parents finally transferred the title of the loan and the car to his name, forcing him to pay it off himself, he threw a tantrum, breaking several glasses, and throwing a dish at the oven, breaking the glass window in the oven door. This while swearing, threatening and cursing at his mother and sister. This is regular behaviour for him. Because he is the 'oldest son,' he gets all the perks in a traditional asian family. Being a girl, my girlfriend gets the **** end of the stick of the family handouts. My girlfriend is in university, with mounting student loans, studying for a double-major in MicroBiology/BioChemistry and Business, hoping to get into med school. Taking 5 classes, and not being able to afford a car, she is unable to take on a part-time job. Her parents help out with a hundred dollars or so every few months, but is barely anything. After the whole dish-throwing incident, my girlfriend talked to her mom to try and convince her to do something about it. Only to be told that SHE should move out instead, "for her own safety" according to her mom. Of course, any financial support from them is absolutely not expected. ******* ridiculous. I've told my girlfriend to ask her friends if she can crash at their places temporarily while she sorts things out, and if not she can live with me and my parents (only problem with that is its a 90 minute commute to school).