Who Likes Married Women?

[Fuuma]

Originally Posted by khaki sack

I've been with at least a dozen married women, in recent 2 years. What do you want to know, exactly? I have been threatened ,physically.

The thing I like about older girls is that every time ,could be their last , and so they put more effort into it. I believe this is a sentiment expressed best by Ian Fleming.

Their last!!!?? Let go of those grannies, they're fragile!!

Personally I see women as fully autonomous human beings capable of choosing for themselves so I don't care if they're in a relationship or not, they're the ones that need to consider it.

 

[redcaimen]

Originally Posted by khaki sack

The thing I like about older girls is that every time ,could be their last , and so they put more effort into it. I believe this is a sentiment expressed best by Ian Fleming.

You don't work in a nursing home, do you? I hope the answer is no!

 

[DNW]

Originally Posted by redcaimen

You don't work in a nursing home, do you? I hope the answer is no!

Grannies need lovin' too!

 

[Nantucket Red]

Originally Posted by Fuuma

Personally I see women as fully autonomous human beings capable of choosing for themselves so I don't care if they're in a relationship or not, they're the ones that need to consider it.

Well said.

 

[GQgeek]

Originally Posted by Nantucket Red

Well said.

If they make themselves available to you for sex and you never take it beyond that, then that's one thing, but would you marry such a woman?

 

[TyCooN]

Originally Posted by tiecollector

Yes, if you don't want a relationship and are going after just getting laid by a married woman knowingly then you are just a first class douche, simple as that.
I'm proud that I don't have to live with your moral compass.

Originally Posted by tiecollector

I once slept with someone I didn't really like all that much and I felt like such a douche that I don't do it anymore.

If any of these guys sleeping around are so "secure" then let's see you marry one of em. Or better yet, try to love someone other than themselves. I think it is overcompensation.
Your efforts are honorable.

 

[Nantucket Red]

Originally Posted by GQgeek

If they make themselves available to you for sex and you never take it beyond that, then that's one thing, but would you marry such a woman?

I would never marry anyone, so that's a moot point. However, I have had affairs with married women who were not in love with their husbands but were in love with me. That's generally the way these things happen. There is such a thing as divorce and second marriage. Just because someone will have an extramarital affair does not necessarily mean they are untrustworthy.

*****cat and I have an open relationship and see other people on the side but still have a high degree of trust. Paradoxical, but it works.

A lot of you guys either have to open your minds more or stop speaking from inexperience. Theory and practice are quite different.

 

[dkzzzz]

/\\ or pick up Eric Fromm's "Art of Love" and finally learn what it takes.

 

[dopey]

Originally Posted by Nantucket Red

I would never marry anyone, so that's a moot point. However, I have had affairs with married women who were not in love with their husbands but were in love with me. That's generally the way these things happen. There is such a thing as divorce and second marriage. Just because someone will have an extramarital affair does not necessarily mean they are untrustworthy . . . .

See John O'Hara. I have been reading a lot of his stuff lately and this is a recurrent theme.

 

[Connemara]

Older married WASPy socialites make frequent appearances in my fantasies.

 

[FLMountainMan]

Originally Posted by tiecollector

Exactly, you have to be pretty self-centered ordesperate to go after a married chick knowingly.

+1. I seem to be of the age where married women hit on me more and more. It's not very cool at all.

 

[Missshopin]

Originally Posted by Coho

Good to have you.

Thank you..

Originally Posted by Nantucket Red

There is such a thing as divorce and second marriage. Just because someone will have an extramarital affair does not necessarily mean they are untrustworthy.

I agree totally with this.
Marriages have a million reasons for not working out. Usually if a woman is looking elswhere she is not invested in her marriage any longer, and if she is taking a lover on the side but still thinks she truly loves her husband she is lying to herself. But that does not mean she can not be faithful to another man at all.
I mean the only reason people stray and move on is because they are not happy in their current situation.
Am I wrong?
There are always exceptions to these rules, but unless you are in a very open relationship or are a swinger then.....

 

[Fuuma]

Originally Posted by Nantucket Red

I would never marry anyone, so that's a moot point. However, I have had affairs with married women who were not in love with their husbands but were in love with me. That's generally the way these things happen. There is such a thing as divorce and second marriage. Just because someone will have an extramarital affair does not necessarily mean they are untrustworthy.

*****cat and I have an open relationship and see other people on the side but still have a high degree of trust. Paradoxical, but it works.

A lot of you guys either have to open your minds more or stop speaking from inexperience. Theory and practice are quite different.

Those that envision love as being a monolithic and exclusive block instead of an ephemeral state in constant flux have a hard time reconciling those kind of situations but the problem lie within their own conceptions that don't reflect a reality infinitely more complex than their idealized but ultimately misleading chimeras.

 

[padronlover]

Originally Posted by Fade to Black

married women, single women, one legged women, whatever...my role in this is, as Jay-Z once spit: "I still love 'em but they don't love me..."
lol you definitely got that wrong buddy.

nothing better than married women...the forbidden fruit must be tasted

 

[tiecollector]

Originally Posted by Missshopin

Thank you..

I agree totally with this.
Marriages have a million reasons for not working out. Usually if a woman is looking elswhere she is not invested in her marriage any longer, and if she is taking a lover on the side but still thinks she truly loves her husband she is lying to herself. But that does not mean she can not be faithful to another man at all.
I mean the only reason people stray and move on is because they are not happy in their current situation.
Am I wrong?
There are always exceptions to these rules, but unless you are in a very open relationship or are a swinger then.....

mmmm yeah... I'd say so. If you are married, did you not remember the part where you said "for better or for WORSE"? Commitment anyone? This is the problem with people these days, they expect everything to be up up up. Life is not this way, it is full of ups and downs. With your parents, wife, friends, whoever, relationships go up and down.

Not too long ago people used to divorce for abuse and infidelity, now people divorce just cuz they weren't "feelin' it" it anymore. If you made a commitment and are wearing a ring, the fact that you are cheating is the definition of untrustworthy. Everyone feels like **** sometimes and faces temptation, what I do is count to 3 and remove myself from the area of temptation.

This post gives me little hope.