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Relationship Dealbreakers

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by juliank, Mar 29, 2011.

  1. Joffrey

    Joffrey Senior member

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    - Smoker
    - Hard drug user
    - Excessive, sloppy drinker


    You like your girls boring, yes?
     
  2. Gibonius

    Gibonius Senior member

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    You like your girls boring, yes?

    People who don't smoke, do hard drugs, or drink to ridiculous excess are automatically boring? I find the people are rely on that kind of stuff to have "fun" to be extremely boring, usually nothing else interesting going on in their life.
     
  3. mcsorleyminute

    mcsorleyminute Member

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    A woman's perspective:


    Small hands.
    Unable to drive a car with a standard transmission.
    Halitosis.
    Getting my phone number and then using it to text me will put a guy right into the friend zone.
    So will an ungentlemanly act like not holding the door open for me (or any one else for that matter).
    A man who is unable to keep his word is a man who doesn't think about what he's saying. That shows a lack of intelligence. There is no zone, friend or otherwise for this person.
    See also: Dishonesty.
    See also: Tiny penis.
     
  4. slaxer

    slaxer Active Member

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    People who don't smoke, do hard drugs, or drink to ridiculous excess are automatically boring? I find the people are rely on that kind of stuff to have "fun" to be extremely boring, usually nothing else interesting going on in their life.

    This is definitely QFT, at least the last two.

    Most of my deal breakers are here already except attention whore.
     
  5. GQgeek

    GQgeek Senior member

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    A woman's perspective:


    Small hands.
    Unable to drive a car with a standard transmission.
    Halitosis.
    Getting my phone number and then using it to text me will put a guy right into the friend zone.
    So will an ungentlemanly act like not holding the door open for me (or any one else for that matter).
    A man who is unable to keep his word is a man who doesn't think about what he's saying. That shows a lack of intelligence. There is no zone, friend or otherwise for this person.
    See also: Dishonesty.
    See also: Tiny penis.


    How old are you, out of curiosity? Seems there's a big age divide on this one.
     
  6. word

    word Senior member

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    -not witty, or not able to engage in witty banter without getting butthurt
    -takes themselves too seriously
    -listens to hip hop/rap/etc
    -christian, even non-practicing ones have a strong chance to get all devout when something monumental happens in their lives. No thx.
    -more than a couple inches taller than me.
    -gets upset or defensive when I use proper etiquette
    -poor posture
    -not petite
     
  7. linkinwayne

    linkinwayne Senior member

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    -not witty, or not able to engage in witty banter without getting butthurt
    -takes themselves too seriously
    -listens to hip hop/rap/etc
    -christian, even non-practicing ones have a strong chance to get all devout when something monumental happens in their lives. No thx.
    -more than a couple inches taller than me.
    -gets upset or defensive when I use proper etiquette
    -poor posture
    -not petite


    lolll
     
  8. GreenFrog

    GreenFrog Senior member

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    A woman's perspective:


    Small hands.
    Unable to drive a car with a standard transmission.
    Halitosis.
    Getting my phone number and then using it to text me will put a guy right into the friend zone.
    So will an ungentlemanly act like not holding the door open for me (or any one else for that matter).
    A man who is unable to keep his word is a man who doesn't think about what he's saying. That shows a lack of intelligence. There is no zone, friend or otherwise for this person.
    See also: Dishonesty.
    See also: Tiny penis.


    It's all about the texting with my generation.
     
  9. texas_jack

    texas_jack Senior member

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    How old are you, out of curiosity? Seems there's a big age divide on this one.

    Yeah, I've had some women act very weird when I call only to text me constantly. It seems like under 27 = text only.
     
  10. Fraiche

    Fraiche Senior member

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    How old are you, out of curiosity? Seems there's a big age divide on this one.

    It don't matter, women's advice on relationships is always wrong. (Unless she's a lesbian.)
     
  11. APK

    APK Senior member

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    You like your girls boring, yes?

    I guess, if that's what you consider boring. The topic at hand was "Relationship Dealbreakers," not "One-Night Stand Dealbreakers." If we're discussing the latter, my list of habits doesn't really apply. That changes when looking at it from a relationship standpoint.

    Relationships require enough work without one of the involved parties being a coke head or a total lush.
     
  12. juliank

    juliank Senior member

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    i find that the more dealbreakers on your list deals with things that a person has no choice over the matter the more shallow of a human being you are
     
  13. gort

    gort Senior member

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    A woman's perspective:


    Small hands.
    Unable to drive a car with a standard transmission.
    Halitosis.
    Getting my phone number and then using it to text me will put a guy right into the friend zone.
    So will an ungentlemanly act like not holding the door open for me (or any one else for that matter).
    A man who is unable to keep his word is a man who doesn't think about what he's saying. That shows a lack of intelligence. There is no zone, friend or otherwise for this person.
    See also: Dishonesty.
    See also: Tiny penis.


    I find this absolutely retarded, and not because I can't drive stick (because I drive stick just fine).
     
  14. RegisDB9

    RegisDB9 Senior member

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    I find this absolutely retarded, and not because I can't drive stick (because I drive stick just fine).

    The question is can she drive stick? Badum Tishhhh
     
  15. Mr. White

    Mr. White Senior member

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    Others have said some things I don't personally agree with, but they make a modicum of sense. This though is full go retarded. A chick has more than two holes, and a Brazilian therefore she's trash? What? Please tell me your joking.

    Women don't shave to "feel clean." That stuff is right off Burma Shave signs. Women shave to show out to men (that their sluttiness is premeditated, affected, and, well, right off porn sites). Same goes for clit rings, tongue rings, etc.

    I don't care if you get your values -- or your women -- second hand from Larry Flynt. Doesn't bother me a bit. It's just not something that I do.

    Speaking of retarded, it strikes me as childish to walk around, making your big message to the world: "I have many holes. . . . I have many holes. . . . I have many holes. . . ." Same for the guys (and gals) who wear those giant black plugs in their ears: "I like a stud. . . . I like a stud. . . . I like a stud. . . ."
     
  16. word

    word Senior member

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    lolll

    It's shit. [​IMG]
     
  17. Mr. White

    Mr. White Senior member

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    It's shit. [​IMG]

    Those quickie personal insults are, by definition, trolling.
     
  18. RegisDB9

    RegisDB9 Senior member

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    Women don't shave to "feel clean." That stuff is right off Burma Shave signs. Women shave to show out to men (that their sluttiness is premeditated, affected, and, well, right off porn sites). Same goes for clit rings, tongue rings, etc.

    I don't care if you get your values -- or your women -- second hand from Larry Flynt. Doesn't bother me a bit. It's just not something that I do.

    Speaking of retarded, it strikes me as childish to walk around, making your big message to the world: "I have many holes. . . . I have many holes. . . . I have many holes. . . ." Same for the guys (and gals) who wear those giant black plugs in their ears: "I like a stud. . . . I like a stud. . . . I like a stud. . . ."


    SEXIST!
     
  19. Mr. White

    Mr. White Senior member

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    Also, good luck finding atrractive girls these days who aren't shaved and don't have at least a belly button piercing.

    Ignoring drunk shit, young people make stupid mistakes when they go out into the world. I don't condemn anyone for being young and stupid. They're just too young for me anymore. Women the right age for me (who still do that) didn't or couldn't grow up. Pass.
     
  20. Duff_Man

    Duff_Man Senior member

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    Seriously. I personally like cruel tatted girls who smoke, but I know that's not for everybody. .

    Fuckin yah. Sociopaths are fucking hot as hell. All my exes have had sociopathic tendencies. It's hot when a girl is willing to (and does) lie, cheat and steal for you.

    Also, rib pieces are fucking badass.
     

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