sharpdressed
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Hello esteemed members of SF,
This is my first post, but I have been a long-time reader of SF.
My wedding is coming up, and most elements (inlcuding my outfit) are all set. My bride has asked that I wear a boutonniere, which I'm happy to do. Personally, I think the boutonniere adds formality and has a certain charm to it. Prior to this, I was anticipating using a pocket square. As a note, I tend to like the way a pocket square breaks up space on a suit more than how a boutonniere does.
I know the traditional rule is to go with either a boutonniere or a pocket, but not both. Is this one of those rules that can occasionally be broken (for example with a white pocket square)?
Increasingly, I have seen photos where men are using both. Certainly this can make the the left side look too busy.
I've also even seen photos of people wearing the pocket square on the left, and a boutonniere on the right! I have an understanding that the boutonniere should only be worn on the left lapel.
I would love to know your thoughts on this. Is there some flexibility to wear both at once? Or is it just simply a faux pas to wear both?
This is my first post, but I have been a long-time reader of SF.
My wedding is coming up, and most elements (inlcuding my outfit) are all set. My bride has asked that I wear a boutonniere, which I'm happy to do. Personally, I think the boutonniere adds formality and has a certain charm to it. Prior to this, I was anticipating using a pocket square. As a note, I tend to like the way a pocket square breaks up space on a suit more than how a boutonniere does.
I know the traditional rule is to go with either a boutonniere or a pocket, but not both. Is this one of those rules that can occasionally be broken (for example with a white pocket square)?
Increasingly, I have seen photos where men are using both. Certainly this can make the the left side look too busy.
I've also even seen photos of people wearing the pocket square on the left, and a boutonniere on the right! I have an understanding that the boutonniere should only be worn on the left lapel.
I would love to know your thoughts on this. Is there some flexibility to wear both at once? Or is it just simply a faux pas to wear both?