thinman
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They would say that's $150.00 a hour to talk about it.
Yes, and I think my ex would benefit from investing heavily in the services of a psychologist/psychiatrist.
I always wonder, and I don't mean disrespect to you Rube, but divorced people always sound so hateful of who they married. I know so many people, like my ex's mom, when I went to their place over the holiday last year, she'd sit and tell me about her crazy ex-husband.
I always wonder, did you not see that **** comming? People don't suddenly stop one day and say "today, I think I'm going to become a crazy asshole". Especially in the case of people with serious issues, I just don't get why they marry these people.
I also don't hate my ex. She can still be a very charming woman, but since we don't have kids or anything else that requires us to interact, she has become irrelevant to me. I think time eventually mellows peoples' feelings toward their ex-spouses.
Some of the reasons for blindness to a spouse/fiancee's faults has to do with the "frog/pot/bring the water to a boil" effect. The **** became evident to me only gradually. Nonetheless, sufficient signs were there before I got married that I should have known. So I must confess, I got into deep **** because I was thinking with the little head instead of the big one.