TrojanGarb
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OK, so here's my deal. I've moved to a city start a new career fresh out of college. Thanks to the economy, my best bet was a new location and complete relocation. I'd like to look at the bright side of being a fresh new start, blah blah blah. I'm pretty much fresh off the boat and need some pointers on how to go about building a new social circle. I'm in the silicon valley so any specific locales would be great. Now my socially challenged circumstances...
I'm unfortunately introverted and I hate it. I can't just go up to people and start a conversation, it's so much easier to be quiet than speak up, and I've got a painfully acute self awareness level interacting with others. I loosen up after getting to know people (the whole getting out of the shell conundrum), but I lose any rewards society grants to the extroverts.
Finding friends at work is pretty much a non starter... I work at an engineering firm with the oldest industry demographics on the planet. There are about 5 employees younger than 30 in my group/building and these are engineers here. Walking down the hallways looking at your feet is the norm.
I made a rookie mistake with housing. This town is nothing but retirees and Indian code junkies (avoid Sunnyvale kids; it's where dreams go to die). My complex is nice enough but haven't met any young people.
I wouldn't be adverse to joining some sort of group or club but I have no idea where to begin. I feel ridiculously awkward going to a bar alone and those aren't great places to meet people anyway.
fml?
I'm unfortunately introverted and I hate it. I can't just go up to people and start a conversation, it's so much easier to be quiet than speak up, and I've got a painfully acute self awareness level interacting with others. I loosen up after getting to know people (the whole getting out of the shell conundrum), but I lose any rewards society grants to the extroverts.
Finding friends at work is pretty much a non starter... I work at an engineering firm with the oldest industry demographics on the planet. There are about 5 employees younger than 30 in my group/building and these are engineers here. Walking down the hallways looking at your feet is the norm.
I made a rookie mistake with housing. This town is nothing but retirees and Indian code junkies (avoid Sunnyvale kids; it's where dreams go to die). My complex is nice enough but haven't met any young people.
I wouldn't be adverse to joining some sort of group or club but I have no idea where to begin. I feel ridiculously awkward going to a bar alone and those aren't great places to meet people anyway.
fml?