Neo_Version 7
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Apparently I missed the swim suit pic? Sonnofa....
It looked like something from J. Crew but I can't be sure.
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Apparently I missed the swim suit pic? Sonnofa....
You might want to quit trying so hard. Many women shy away from a guy who seems to be in constant pursuit. You have to care, but not that much. Because of the female ego, she'll shy away from you if you're persistent, calling everyday...basically, showing you're interested. Most females tend to feel better about giving a run-around to a guy who does those things. But it's the guy who shows he doesn't give much of a **** whom they chase after relentlessly. Instead of trying as hard as you are, just become "too busy." But don't overdo it because she might eventually say "*******." Just enough for her to know that you care about the two of you dating/talking, but not enough to chase her. Stop calling her, stop texting, stop the facebook bullshit, etc. Make it appear as if you just lose interest.Then when or if she finally calls, tell her you've been taking care of business and haven't had time to call.
Call her Friday and say something came up - don't go into details - and say you'll call her later. Be vague. That should get in her head. She is probably not used to guys blowing her off, and it will throw her a curveball.
Maybe she texted you about the beach thinking you either decided not to go, or because she didn't want it to be awkward if she ran into you. Maybe she also doesn't want things to be awkward at the gym, etc...and that's why she doesn't want to outright ignore you. Also, it's possible she likes your company and sees you as a non-threat (aka a friend). I dunno, that's just how I'd behave if that was the case for me.
Yeah, what a ******* disaster. I should be ashamed of myself. No skills whatsoever.
I'm surprised it took this long for the obligatory "Ignore Her" strategy to get mentioned.
It's very difficult to ignore a hot chick. You try it
Actually, she had work that day, but was able to leave early. That's why she was able to make it to the beach.She said yes, but then backed out with the "not feeling so great" card. She should not have had other plans that kept her "busy until 2" after backing out on you.
That's what I've been trying to do. Here's the timeline:You might want to quit trying so hard. Many women shy away from a guy who seems to be in constant pursuit. You have to care, but not that much. Because of the female ego, she'll shy away from you if you're persistent, calling everyday.
Normally, this is what I would do... but I did this before by waiting from 5/26 (when I mentioned I wanted to have lunch) until 6/20 when I finally asked her out. Also, she leaves soon, so my time is limited.Call her Friday and say something came up - don't go into details - and say you'll call her later. Be vague. That should get in her head. She is probably not used to guys blowing her off, and it will throw her a curveball.
I reek of desperation here on SF, because I've been completely honest with you guys. IRL, I've tried to do the opposite.She knows she can have you at this point - you reek of desperation
That's what I'm trying to pull off here... the "I won't take no for an answer" attitude. I have two friends who married women that were not interested in them at first, but they kept insisting and ended up scoring.Look man, girls like a man who take initiative and know what they want. Those are Alpha Males qualities and a female can quickly recognize them.
If I'm able to score a kiss, I'm completely in. I have no doubt about that. Problem is overcoming this initial shyness I always have.Sounds like you're in the friendzone to me. Sure, you might get a drunken kiss or two at some point but I don't see a relationship in your future.
yeah.
BTW, I have this other chick lined up at the moment, who is very hot (not as hot as this girl, though) and very good in bed. But I don't give a **** about her, because she's head over heels for me.