I don't know... people who are in professions that require advanced degrees (Law and especially Medicine) may have stunted relationship experience. Mostly so because they only can date eachother so you have two people who are stunted in the relationship game. Plus lets face it... in order to graduate from Law school there's a great chance that you're a reformed nerd/geek who's just starting to figure things out in you're late 20's and early 30's. to the OP: keep it up man. if you're a nice guy keep at it. but keep trying to have human interactions with her, not just internet/text stuff. buuuuttt... sometimes people need time (years even) to get over a relationship. or worse some girls are just so used to dating assholes, that a guy being nice is just a foreign concept and that can be a self fulfilling prophecy where they will TURN you into an asshole eventually while dating them. you have to at least try. While that might be the case for some kids, at my college the kids who went to top law/med school were pretty sociable. Of course, this is kids that I knew and its a small sample size. Buddy went to Harvard Med and he was on the football team. ALSO FUCK I GO WORK OUT AND I MISS THE PICS??? PLEASE REPOST SO I CAN GIVE YOU ADVICE!!!