I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

[APK]



Somehow it all got turned around on me and I'm the bad guy because I didn't trust her and I hurt her etc.

Again, unless this is a cultural thing, then this absolutely sounds like someone who wants out but doesn't want to be the bad guy, so she's going to act like this until you say, "I can't do this anymore."

 

[Eason]

Yeah I just know don't know how to defend myself, I explain exactly why I'm upset then she says it's because I don't trust her and how my words hurt her and I ruined everything by overreacting etc.

Somehow it all got turned around on me and I'm the bad guy because I didn't trust her and I hurt her etc.

Again, unless this is a cultural thing, then this absolutely sounds like someone who wants out but doesn't want to be the bad guy, so she's going to act like this until you say, "I can't do this anymore."

I have a high tolerance for horrible crazy bitches, she might be surprised.

I'm going to go throw vending machines at people.

 

[Joffrey]

You are overreacting. Chill the **** out and hang out with her. How long have you been with her that you need to get all bent out of shape?

 

[lasbar]



Yeah I just know don't know how to defend myself, I explain exactly why I'm upset then she says it's because I don't trust her and how my words hurt her and I ruined everything by overreacting etc.
I have a high tolerance for horrible crazy bitches, she might be surprised.
I'm going to go throw vending machines at people.

You are overreacting. Chill the **** out and hang out with her. How long have you been with her that you need to get all bent out of shape?

He is a bit over the edge...

Hang out with her and don't get heavy with her...

Let the all relationship flow..

 

[deadly7]

**** that. Just dump her. Too much drama for a <6 month relationship. If you aren't banging, drinking, and relaxing nonstop with her your 6 months it's ova.

 

[Eason]

All my friends said the writing was on the wall and it was her wrong, panel of SF experts say I overreacted. Damnit why don't have I more conviction of my own.

**** that. Just dump her. Too much drama for a <6 month relationship. If you aren't banging, drinking, and relaxing nonstop with her your 6 months it's ova.

This is true, my ex and I had basically a year honeymoon period (well except for that whole crazy ex-bf thing) until we went long distance.

 

[ratboycom]

Been a while since I've been on here. I got really sweet job down in Nagoya doing marketing/technical stuff for Toyota's overseas markets. Down side is after being here for a few weeks the stewardess girl broke things off with me at the end of last month. was a real bummer, girl was rather active in the sack and had a great pair of legs, also she would bring me goodies from around the world.

 

[hendrix]



After not talking to her for 2 days, she now messages me and keeps asking what's going on and "what are we". I thought about just breaking up with her but instead I just told her that I took us too seriously before and now I won't do that. In Chinese this is called "Riding a donkey while looking for a horse."
edit: now she says that if I won't take her seriously might as well break up. I told her it's pretty clear she doesn't take us seriously. She said "the friends I'm going out with I don't want to introduce you to, that's why I didn't invite you" Right ok so why go out with them? Kick rocks.

She called your bluff.

Are you 100% sure she does actually go out and isn't studying but wants you to think she's cool and attractive and **** and she really doesn't have any friends to go out with or introduce you to? (6)

Somehow it all got turned around on me and I'm the bad guy because I didn't trust her and I hurt her etc.

lol

**** that. Just dump her. Too much drama for a <6 month relationship. If you aren't banging, drinking, and relaxing nonstop with her your 6 months it's ova.

yeah...

 

[HgaleK]

Bro, she's working you over. Dump her and let it be done.

 

[VelvetGreen]

There are women who have no inner life wherever one looks for it, being nothing but masks. That man is to be pitied who lets himself in with such ghostly, necessarily unsatisfying creatures; but just these women are able to stimulate man`s desire most intensely: he searches for their souls --and searches evermore.

 

[Neo_Version 7]

On top of the demands of nursing school, she has to deal with her own circle of friends and the needs of her boyfriend. She has soulless ***** written all over her.

 

[Eason]



There are women who have no inner life wherever one looks for it, being nothing but masks. That man is to be pitied who lets himself in with such ghostly, necessarily unsatisfying creatures; but just these women are able to stimulate man`s desire most intensely: he searches for their souls --and searches evermore.

"The women in my basement are dead." -- Nietzsche

 

[lasbar]



"The women in my basement are dead." -- Nietzsche

More likely ted Bundy or Gary Heidnik..

 

[Eason]

lasbar it seems you have a fascination with serial killers, you've brought them up in threads with some regularity. Should we worry about you?

 

[lasbar]



lasbar it seems you have a fascination with serial killers, you've brought them up in threads with some regularity. Should we worry about you?

No...

They fascinate me because they repulse me and I love criminal psychology/forensics..

I'm always fascinated by people doing extreme things ...

It doesn't mean I admire them ,far from that..