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Yes, I realize many women want to have control/influence over the ring. That doesn’t make the practice any more tasteful or any less cake-and-eat-it-too — “I’m a traditionalist insofar as you should buy me a ring but I’m progressive in that I should get to pick it out.” If one really wants to do away with tradition, there shouldn’t be an engagement ring at all, which I totally respect.
"The way I do things is definitely the right and only tasteful way to do things."
There's more than a whiff of sexism wrapped up in this post. Not something I have seen from you before.