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Falling In Love With A Stripper; Set Me Straight SF

bigbris1

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Originally Posted by B Hamilton
....but seriously, what would your approach have been if you met a dancer inside the club?

When I pick one (or two) I liked, I would establish eye contact then ignore them for the rest of the night. Eventually they'd come over and start a convo. While talking I didn't touch or ogle but kept eye contact. Bayow!

Being tall, dark & handsome helps, too.
 

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Originally Posted by B Hamilton
Had I known they take checks....but seriously, what would your approach have been if you met a dancer inside the club?

Perform the opening bars of Roxanne.
 

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Originally Posted by Dan K
She probably wanted you to come over and bone her on the bean bag.

she wanted him to buy her the beanbag in exchange for bonage.
 

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JLibourel;3440839 said:
My experience with that world was 30-40 years ago, so my perceptions may be dated, but:

The vast majority of strippers are not prostitutes.

ok, not sure but i have seen strippers basically in nortth america, cnetral america southamerica, africa and europe, and my experience has been the complete opposite. you pay enough, the price varies per region, they will ****, most of the tiem that where the real money is.
 

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Originally Posted by tomgirl
. It's more likely that you'll have fantastic sex for <1 month and then deal with her insane mood swings as a result of her traumatic childhood...but you never know!

that would be my take - you don't usually get to the pole without some major issues. most women have issues, but there are different levels of issues.
 

Mark from Plano

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Originally Posted by globetrotter
that would be my take - you don't usually get to the pole without some major issues. most women have issues, but there are different levels of issues.

True dat. It's called "Stripper Drama" for a reason.
 

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scarphe;3443912 said:
JLibourel;3440839 said:
My experience with that world was 30-40 years ago, so my perceptions may be dated, but:

The vast majority of strippers are not prostitutes.

ok, not sure but i have seen strippers basically in nortth america, cnetral america southamerica, africa and europe, and my experience has been the complete opposite. you pay enough, the price varies per region, they will ****, most of the tiem that where the real money is.
Well, my experience has only been in Southern California, so I can't talk about those other places. I will say that 35-odd years ago I was a regular at several clubs. I tipped generously and was on familiar and cordial terms with a number of the girls. None, absolutely none, ever so much as hinted to me that her sexual services might be available for a price.

One absolutely adorable redheaded stripper once remarked to me, "I have be doing this for 11 years. [She was in her early 30's.] In that time I have known a lot of girls, and of all them, only three were into hooking. Besides, if I were into hooking, I'd be out hooking, not stripping. I'd probably be making a lot more money."
 

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JLibourel;3444215 said:
scarphe;3443912 said:
Originally Posted by JLibourel
My experience with that world was 30-40 years ago, so my perceptions may be dated, but: The vast majority of strippers are not prostitutes. Well, my experience has only been in Southern California, so I can't talk about those other places. I will say that 35-odd years ago I was a regular at several clubs. I tipped generously and was on familiar and cordial terms with a number of the girls. None, absolutely none, ever so much as hinted to me that her sexual services might be available for a price. One absolutely adorable redheaded stripper once remarked to me, "I have be doing this for 11 years. [She was in her early 30's.] In that time I have known a lot of girls, and of all them, only three were into hooking. Besides, if I were into hooking, I'd be out hooking, not stripping. I'd probably be making a lot more money."
I have to think that this thinking is a bit outdated. There's a reason that they had to put up signs that specifically say "NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM".
 

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Sometimes just palming the booty for 10 mins at the bar is worth the $20. The only lap dance I ever had, my wife bought for me after I picked out the chick.

Yeah. Church.
 

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