Falling In Love With A Stripper; Set Me Straight SF

[Hombre Secreto]

Originally Posted by B Hamilton

More than women in general? As men, we live with a lot, as is. I'll have to determine better what frame of mind she's in, although her place of work won't be the best place. Still, I'll need to investigate

Most women don't have the fucked up backgrounds strippers have. I don't think all strippers are crazy though.

 

[frenchy]

Originally Posted by JLibourel

My experience with that world was 30-40 years ago, so my perceptions may be dated, but:

The vast majority of strippers are not prostitutes.

Most seem (seemed, in my case) to be very pleasant, affable young women. (Of course, it's their business to be affable.)

I dated a stripper briefly. She was bright and interesting company (although we never "closed the deal," as it were). Two major turn-offs: She was a fervent Scientologist, and her apartment was squalid beyond belief...and I'm not too fussy.

In more recent years, I have heard it claimed that a very high percentage of strippers are actually lesbians.

I'd say, "Go for it." If she is willing to date you in the outside world, at least it will be interesting for awhile. Just keep your head.

Bear in mind that just about all women are crazy, ill-tempered bitches (most of time, anyway), so why not get one who is much better looking than the generality of women and really knows how to move her body?

some might argue that SHOWING YOUR ***** FOR MONEY is indeed the very definition of prostitution

 

[B Hamilton]

Originally Posted by frenchy

some might argue that SHOWING YOUR ***** FOR MONEY is indeed the very definition of prostitution

How dare you!!! The future Mrs. Hamilton works at a topless club sir

 

[frenchy]

Originally Posted by B Hamilton

How dare you!!! The future Mrs. Hamilton works at a topless club sir

just topless?
****..that aint no stripper just a dick tease...i thought we were talking good ole ***** shows like we got in canada...sheesh i know your beer is watered down but i didnt know srtip clubs were too...TOPLESS haha (omg im laughing so hard) lie seriously whats the point?

 

[word]

No seriously, give her enough money and you'll get taken to a back room.

That's how it works here at least. But most of the women are FUBAR.

Hit it and quit it. Like captoe said.

 

[Big Pun]

I dated one before. http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=132169 Don't do it unless you don't mind tons of emotional baggage

 

[KitAkira]

Originally Posted by B Hamilton

I would hope not, the way I'm feeling but..... I might have to give this some thought. I can't get this song outta my head tho
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This is exactly what started playing in my head as I read the title lol

 

[WSW]

Never buy when you can rent.

 

[mkarim]

Originally Posted by B Hamilton

Went to the gentleman's establishment (probably my third time ever, 23 y.o) and out of the whole parade of

women, saw one

. By way of tips, I most likely took care of her cell phone bill. (Also may have gotten down on one knee and gave her a drunken proposal, which she wasn't utterly disgusted by btw) It's been three days and I still can't get her off my mind. Never had trouble attracting women so I don't doubt I could make this happen. We've all heard the stripper stories though (unstable, coke whores, etc.) Talk me out of this!

You are in love with a fantasy, which is what they sell.

 

[mkarim]

Originally Posted by tomgirl

My sister-in-law is a reformed stripper. It can happen. It's more likely that you'll have fantastic sex for <1 month and then deal with her insane mood swings as a result of her traumatic childhood...but you never know!

+100.

 

[Duff_Man]

Originally Posted by Big Pun

I dated one before.

http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=132169

Don't do it unless you don't mind tons of emotional baggage

+1

 

[bigbris1]

I used to date strippers. You ruined it by giving her cash. Now you're a custie.

Sorry.

 

[Dakota rube]

Originally Posted by mkarim

You are in love with a fantasy, which is what they sell.

+1

 

[B Hamilton]

Originally Posted by bigbris1

I used to date strippers. You ruined it by giving her cash. Now you're a custie.

Sorry.

Had I known they take checks....but seriously, what would your approach have been if you met a dancer inside the club?

 

[SpallaCamiccia]

Originally Posted by bigbris1

I used to date strippers. You ruined it by giving her cash. Now you're a custie.

Sorry.

I used to date the step beyond strippers , you know... $$$ , I realized now while studying pschicologie that most of them were borderline personality disorder or schizotypic. And turned me more depressed that I was, 9 years ago.

One day one came ( for free ) to dinner with me, the other day didn´t picked up the phone. Well almost 99 % of nowadays women. And so on with almost 10 .

Enjoy as much as possible and use this experience to get more mature.