MrDaniels
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I almost took another thread off in a tangent, but I think this is worth its own discussion...and I do not believe I have seen this discussed here in depth before:
So we have all seen countless posts about dressing as conservatively as possible for an interview and "not out-dressing the boss" in any case, but what about when the person in authority is a woman? Is it possible that a woman would actually prefer seeing a guy who can really coordinate different colors and patterns well (let's say a pinstripe suit, windowpane shirt and a solid tie) and takes the time to use French cuffs and a PS? Or wears brown or burgundy shoes as opposed to the basic black? And is a woman interviewer going to be as well-versed in the rules and standards that are argued here, such as don't wear a PS or wear French cuffs? Or is she going to go with her gut instinct looking at a guy's entire outfit and say to herself, "well...he look sharp/ nice/ professional."
And on the other end of the pecking order (and I really don't want to sound sexist...but....), what about the man-hungry, Sex and the City-addicted young female receptionist who is the first and last person you probably encounter when going to the firm for an interview? A smart interviewer will ask the support staff "how were they" to see if their manners and best behavior only applies to the interviewees superiors. If a guy takes the time to show some flair and stand out...frankly, making oneself more attractive to women would it not probably inspire Miss Bubblehead to say "Oh yeah...I really LIKED him!"
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So we have all seen countless posts about dressing as conservatively as possible for an interview and "not out-dressing the boss" in any case, but what about when the person in authority is a woman? Is it possible that a woman would actually prefer seeing a guy who can really coordinate different colors and patterns well (let's say a pinstripe suit, windowpane shirt and a solid tie) and takes the time to use French cuffs and a PS? Or wears brown or burgundy shoes as opposed to the basic black? And is a woman interviewer going to be as well-versed in the rules and standards that are argued here, such as don't wear a PS or wear French cuffs? Or is she going to go with her gut instinct looking at a guy's entire outfit and say to herself, "well...he look sharp/ nice/ professional."
And on the other end of the pecking order (and I really don't want to sound sexist...but....), what about the man-hungry, Sex and the City-addicted young female receptionist who is the first and last person you probably encounter when going to the firm for an interview? A smart interviewer will ask the support staff "how were they" to see if their manners and best behavior only applies to the interviewees superiors. If a guy takes the time to show some flair and stand out...frankly, making oneself more attractive to women would it not probably inspire Miss Bubblehead to say "Oh yeah...I really LIKED him!"
?????