spb_lady
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My experience with death is mostly imaginary... including one terrible car accident i've been in a year ago when i seriously thought it's the end, doctor saying that my mother has cancer at a final stage and they won't be able to help (at the end they appeared to make a mistake in diagnosis) and my rat died when i was 7 years old. I cried one week then. That's all. Not far relatives, grand mothers and fathers, not far friends nobody has died around me for 24 years of my life. Till yesterday.
Her younger brother called me crying, said what happened and asked to help them with the flowers (as i used to work as a flowerist for a year). I knew her since i was 10. Last two years of school we set at the first table in the class together. She also had bad eyes. I saw her 6 months ago for the last time. She was so cute then. Today i've chosen white and yellow flowers for her funeral.
Though she wasn't my closest friend, i feel myself weird since yesterday. I can start crying or laughing with no serious reason. I don't eat. I behave stupidly. I have built a great wall around this theme in my mind and try to avoid thinking about it at all costs.
Tomorrow i'm invited to the funeral and i'm scared, i'm really scared to go there.
How do you go through the funeral? Any advice needed.
Her younger brother called me crying, said what happened and asked to help them with the flowers (as i used to work as a flowerist for a year). I knew her since i was 10. Last two years of school we set at the first table in the class together. She also had bad eyes. I saw her 6 months ago for the last time. She was so cute then. Today i've chosen white and yellow flowers for her funeral.
Though she wasn't my closest friend, i feel myself weird since yesterday. I can start crying or laughing with no serious reason. I don't eat. I behave stupidly. I have built a great wall around this theme in my mind and try to avoid thinking about it at all costs.
Tomorrow i'm invited to the funeral and i'm scared, i'm really scared to go there.
How do you go through the funeral? Any advice needed.