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post #46 of 49
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Originally Posted by Lel View Post
Sounds like your sisters just pursued their passions and went with what they enjoyed/wanted to do, rather than the "right moves" (whatever that means).

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post #47 of 49
don't worry op... just downplay all their achievements, wish them ill, tell your folks their daughters hated them when you were kids, and laugh at them every time they face problems. you'll feel better.
post #48 of 49
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Originally Posted by sho'nuff View Post
i would say sister 2 is still a loser no matter what she pulls due to her characteristics. oh well. that's me

How so?

She seems similar to myself, with worse grades and quite a bit more income
post #49 of 49
OP, no need to be like that.

Money doesn't buy happiness (but it bloody well helps though).

If I were you, I'd be happy for your sisters.

My younger sister looked at what I did for a living, decided she liked it and would do the same course at uni, and then landed a job out of uni earning a decent 6 figure income that took me 8 years to reach. I'm stoked for her, honestly.

I never begrudge people that earn more than me, good on them I reckon. If its hundreds of thousands or millions a year, who cares, they got themselves into that position by their own doing (mostly). Being envious leads to tall poppy syndrome, which shits me immensely. I also think you can never earn too much. Just abiding by those simple beliefs has never caused me to be jealous of anyone, rather I usually start asking myself how I can get into that position.

Seriously man, just be happy for them otherwise its going to build up and you will end up bitter and twisted. I have family members (not immediate) that don't talk to me because I had the audacity to work my ass off at uni and subsequent work to set myself up financially, much to their displeasure. They don't exist to me, I have completely cut and shut them out of my life. I couldn't give two fucks if I don't see them again if they are idiotic enough to get bitter over their own percieved failures and my own progress.
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