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how long does it take you to say these words?

Sherman90

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Now that I think about it, I think I've only told one woman (besides my mother) that I love her - and that was my ex of about 3 years.

I certainly do have the habit of telling my close friends that I "love" them, though. Especially when I'm warm.
 

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Originally Posted by spb_lady
It means that you just don't love those guys you are with or you have difficulties with saying these words? And then do you expect to hear it from them?

yea I guess I don't think I've ever been "in love" with someone. I'd probably have a little difficulty saying the words, but I won't know until I'm in the situation. I've heard it from a guy before, but because it wasn't really a reciprocated feeling, I didn't really "believe" him.
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Originally Posted by tomgirl
My stuttering problem makes it so that it takes a while for me to get the words out, so like...a week?

Actually (no stuttering problem) I've never really said it to anyone other than friends and family. It's hard for me to imagine saying to a guy I'm with, though I hope one day I do!


Women that say "I love you" after a week scare me.
 

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Waited 4 months in current relationship. Had never said it before.
 

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Originally Posted by tomgirl
My stuttering problem makes it so that it takes a while for me to get the words out, so like...a week?
Originally Posted by Mountains
Women that say "I love you" after a week scare me.

you mean after a week of stuttering?
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I actually do stutter
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but, the time to say the word has varied a lot. Three or four months is pretty much the minimum.
 

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Originally Posted by FLMountainMan
I actually do stutter
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:giving a hug:
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Hm, another thread starting with "How long". I'm starting to worry what the next topic that starts this way will be about.
 

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never noticed it but it seems that i love australians... it took me 24 years to say it.
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Is it weird if I've never said it nor had a person to say it to, other than my immediate family or maybe my best friend?
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