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how long does it take you to say these words?

RedScarf7

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Originally Posted by volatility smile
Is it weird if I've never said it nor had a person to say it to, other than my immediate family or maybe my best friend?

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Age dependant, but not that big of a deal.

I've said it to one person outside of family/best friends, and she happens to be my gf of nearly 4 years. Not saying "I love you" your whole life will help you appreciate it more when you find someone to share your love/life with.
 

imageWIS

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Originally Posted by RedScarf7
Age dependant, but not that big of a deal.

I've said it to one person outside of family/best friends, and she happens to be my gf of nearly 4 years. Not saying "I love you" your whole life will help you appreciate it more when you find someone to share your love/life with.


Perhaps 'I lust you' is a good compromise.
 

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~4-5 months

Kinda silly to make an expectation of it (or anything in a relationship really, besides marriage after a certain point)

I dated a girl for a year, she never met my parents and all I got her for her bday was a Connect 4 game. Those are the expectations she allowed (and I was a poor student at the time). It is what it is
 

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