Longtime reader, first time poster. I am excited to become part of the forum that has taught me so much. I need help on deciding on a tie (or bow tie) and pocket square combo to wear with a grey suit and a purple gingham shirt. I don't have the shirt yet but the suit is similar color/texture to the one below (maybe a little darker) and I included a pic of the shirt I'll probably buy unless convinced otherwise. I'd also be interested to hear shoe/sock suggestions. I want the combo to really pop but not be too over the top... whatever that means. Looking forward to the responses. Thanks!