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taking out a boss's relative that's in town

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Originally Posted by Jodum5
Personally, I'd do it. Sounds like fun. I wouldn't hit on her though.
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bro. make sure you hit it.
not this EDIT: to clarify--you can make a good impression and attempt to hit later. You probably shouldn't hit this time around
 

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Originally Posted by otc
not this

This is coming from a guy who has a Mad Men avatar. I think that goes without saying.
 

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Originally Posted by Jodum5
Personally, I'd do it. Sounds like fun. I wouldn't hit on her though.

why hang with her if NOT to try to hit it...esp when OP does not want to??
 

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Originally Posted by Gradstudent78
In this situation does he run the risk of getting **** if something bad goes down after he left? Like they run wild and end up getting lost in the city and wake up in some weird place because of it.

who cares! she is coming with a friend(s). not his problem..have a drink or 2 and LEAVE!! give them your cell and let them know to call if they have any issues.
 

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Friends aren't off limits though...
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Also, this is not the boss's daughter...if you two really hit it off, I am sure you will be able to see her again and your boss won't care. Just take it easy when you are being her new-town tour guide (there is a big difference between a girl saying "I'm new in town, wanna show me around" and someone else arranging for an appropriate aged person to show them around)
 

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I'd do it for sure. Deffinatly stay with the "hope her friends are hot" plan and go with that if they are. You said she seems easy and birds of feather, ya know.
 

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Originally Posted by dmass1
She seems like she parties and might be a little bit "easy", but I really do not want go too wild and do something I might regret for my jobs sake. At the same time I feel some pressure to take them out and show these girls a good time because there's a bunch of them coming in for a crazy weekend. Hopefully her friends are hot...


The bolded always bugged me. How did you get that impression?
 

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Ignore most of the advice here.

Be a perfect gentleman. Take the group to a nice restaurant and maybe a club afterward. Choose places that might not be known by out-of-towners. Avoid the kinds of places that advertise in those bound restaurant guides in hotel rooms.

Show her a nice time, and then leave when it seems appropriate.

Do not hit on her, or her friends.

She will tell her cousin how charming you are, and your boss will think that you are a bright, mature young man who treats women respectfully.

That will bring you more success at work than anything else you do.
 

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and next time your boss or sr member of your firm asks "what are you doing 3 years from today", respond, "i think i may have a family thing...but what's up??"
 

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