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She was fair game because you and her had no committed relationship (and you hadn't even asked her out yet). But I would say that your friend damn-well could have asked you if you had asked the girl out yet. Especially if he knew you were into her. "With friends like that..." and all.
I agree with this. You took too long to ask this girl out, but your "friend" should have given you the right of first refusal knowing that you liked her. I think it would have been fine if he had come to you and said, "Look, I am interested in this girl. I know you have liked her for awhile, so I will stand down for the time being and let you make your move. But I can't wait around forever."